What is your love language?

Love languages, blogging, relationship

Well, this week I was finding bit difficult to choose the topic for writing the blog post. Finally I came up with an idea to write about LOVE,something which everyone is looking for in this world.

What is love ????

LOVE has always been the most difficult word to describe but yes, the best feeling which immediately changes your inner and outer environment. Nothing seems good without it. A world without love means an ocean without water. Not only human beings but all the the living creatures are  looking for it badly.

Do we express our love in a right way???

We have different ways to show are love for othets. Does the feeling you want to show are being correctly understood by othet person ? I doubt.

Sometimes, in our life a situation comes when we do our best to make our loved ones happy but the result comes out as a zero. Our attempt to make other person feel wanted and loved failed.We feel depressed and sad.

Why do we fail to understand the love expressed by others?

The answer to this question lies in the following examples.

● A wife cooks a special dish for the husband  on their anniversary. He tastes it and praises her but the wife is not happy??? Poor husband is not able to understand ! He has appreciated her efforts but she is reacting like this ???The reason being here that she was expecting a gift , may be a smaller one, on that particular day as her way to show love.(Gifts- a language of love for her)

Take one more example,

● Today is Janith’s mom’s birthday. She brings a beautiful bouquet and a dress of her choice to give her as a surprise. The mother is not happy????

The reason , she was not looking for the gift rather she wanted to spent some hours with her. ( A quality time – a language of love for her)

In both the cases, the language of love was different. The language of love for Janith was giving and receiving gift while for the mother was a quality time. Both were not able to understand the language of each other,both were not happy despite being putting efforts.

Same is the case in all the relationships. Most of the times we fail to understand the language of our partner, a friend, our children in our busy life. There is always a possibility that you language of love is different from the other person. You are expressing your love by giving gifts but the other person is expecting may be some quality time or some words of affirmations.

 Why should we know about different languages of love ???

You can make the other person feel eanted only if you know different languages of love .

Languages of love , blo,

FIVE LANGUAGES OF LOVE

According to Gary Chapman, there are five languages of love.

1. Words of appreciation or affirmation

2. Giving or receiving gifts

3.  Acts of service i.e. taking care

4. Quality time

5. Physical touch such as hugs 

Every person has his own language of love. You have to understand the language of other person to make him feel loved. It is like speaking the same language for each other. For this you have to discover his language by putting your language aside.

Sometimes, you may have felt that your wife is never been happy inspite the fact that you are going to market , bringing the groceries or getting the kids ready for the school ,Yet she complains you that you do not love her .It is because you feel loved when other person does this for you.

Your language of love is showing care for other. Not neccesarily ,it is a her language of love also. May be she feel loved when you spent some quality time with her or a small hug from you or a small flower or chocolate.

What is your language of love , journey of life continues

Discover the love languages of your loved ones.

We need to discover the language of each other. It is not only for married people but with kids too. If you are coming from a foreign tour and have brought  many gifts. You expect you child to be happy but she or he is not. May be he or she was expecting a tight hug ,not the gifts. Understand what the other person expect from you.

How can we make the other person feel loved??

By speaking their language of love .

In a nutshell, what is important to find the language of your loved loves so that you reciprocate the love in same manner and make the other person feel loved by putting your efforts in a right direction.

I am really thankful to  Gary Chapman    who has written such a wonderful book ( 5 languages of Love) that has helped me a lot to understand this concept of love and created a such a positive impact in my life.

Now you can answer to this question if somebody tell you – dear, you do not love me 😐

Tell that– I love you but my way if expressing love is different from you. Please understand .

If the person feels difficult to understand – Show this article and tell him or her to read😉😉

Feel free to share on WhatsApp or facebook or any other social media to make the world understand the languages of love.

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Friday feature #4

Hello Guys !

I  know you must  be eagerly waiting for the next FRIDAY FEATURE  – A time to know about a new blogger friend.

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First of all I must apologise for putting up the post bit late. The reason being , I am participating in a blogging contest which require lot of attention.

This extra time gave a chance to explore more bloggers and make new friends.  During this time I came across many blogs and selected this one to feature here.

Congratulations…!!!

Live and Sparkle💖💖

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Blog Name –    Live and sparkle

Blogger’s Name  –   Judith

About her blog :

The aim of her blog is to share positivity and inspire someone out there.   She  loves writing her experiences and figured out it will be nice to share with others.

About her :

She is passionate about offering tips to help others improve their each day. Her goal for Live and Sparkle is to create an  inspiring online community that help people build their self-esteem and confidence.

My visit to his blog :

I enjoyed reading many of her posts. I particularly found most of the titles of the posts are attractive. She also write about blogging tips and ways to grow blog traffic too.Her posts are full of motivation and  guide us to make our life more comfortable and easy.

I am sure you will enjoy your visit to her blog .

Congratulations!!! Dear Judith

Proudly announce on your blog that you are now an important part of friday feature bloggers team. 

Keep writing and motivating others. God is always with you for this noble cause. Keep sharing and caring…!!!

A big thank to you all who participated and supporting me in this journey .

Remember! Blogging has its

own rules and regulations

Keep in touch with my blog or my twitter account to know more about Friday Feature Post. Follow me on your favourite social media.

Twitter

Facebook

Pinterest

Instagram

Share if you want to grow  your  community.Be a proud blogger .

Different Personalities around us in the society

Human beings are social animals,that, they can’t survive without society. The society comprises people around us. Since morning till night, from Monday to Sunday, years after years we meet lot of people.

The people around me and you are almost similar in many charactersitics or we can say that they have same kind of personality.

PERSONALITY

Personality

According to the dictionary , 

It is a combination of characterstics or qualities that form individual’s distinctive character.

Some of these traits are inherited and some are accquired through the kind of enviornment they are living in.Personality defines what kind of person you are.

INFUENCE OF DIFFERENT PERSONALITIES ON US

You can’t deny the fact that people around us have lot of impact on us as it is rightly said

A PERSON IS KNOWN BY THE COMPANY OF PEOPLE HE IS SURROUNDED BY.

The most difficult things can be achieved easily if you are surrounded with people having positive attitude. This become worse to worst if you can’t understand the basic nature or personality of a person you are living with.

Person

DIFFERENT TYPES OF PERSONALITIES AROUND US

let’s see the faces of some personalities who keep revolving around most of us. Some of you may have encountered whilefew of these or may meet soon in future.

EASY GOING PEOPLE :

Personality

Take it easy

These are the people whose personality does not change as per situation. They react towards all the situation in a same manner always. Their basic traits remain same and are emotionally strong. They don’t take things to the heart and remain calm. Take it easy ,dear is their attitude towards life.

OPPORTUNISTS :

Opportunitist personalities

These are the people who always seek oppourtunity in each and every situation. They have an ability to change the things according to their need. They know how to crack the situation for their benefit. You may or may not be knowing what they are planning for you .

EASILY INFUENCED :

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This category is for those who have low esteem. They lack confidence and depend on others for decision making. They are emotionally weak and can’t control their emotions. Hence, get easily influenced by the people around them. They are easy prey for others.

MASKED PERSONALITY :

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These are the most difficult to understand. They know how to hide the emotions and feelings behind the face. They can also be called as FLAT FACED as they carry same expressions throught the day. NO SMILES NO WORRIES. They do not get easily attached with other and have few friends. They are always in their own world.

EMOTIONAL FOOLS :

Emotional fools personality

These are the ones who are always ready to help. They can’t see others in trouble. They are ready to extend their helping hands despite of knowing the fact that this can lead them to trouble. Such people , many a times, lose their money because the other person know that he/she will not say no to me when he/she see me in trouble. They easily fall in love and later cry.

These are few to mention. There may be many more waiting for you and me. Just now I am thinking in which category do I fall in.!!

Pic credit : Google

Note: This article has been written as a part of SuperBloggerChallenge2018 conducted by Healthwealthbridge.comFashionablefoodz.comAllaboutthewoman.com and should not be repurposed, republished or used otherwise. The content herein is owned by the blogger. SuperBloggerChallenge2018 is not responsible for any kind of infringement caused. 

Have you ever encountered with any such kind of person in your life ? How did you deal with that situation ?

7 Tips for Super blogger Challenge 2019

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10 Week Blogging Journey

It has been almost a year since I am blogging. I started blogging to share my experiences of life and what I observe in the society. The other reason was to express my imagination in the form of stories, poems or just as feeling.
Slowly and steadily as I grew up as a blogger I came across a world who has a patience  to hear me , support me and share their thoughts with me.

Last month only I came across Superbloggerchallenge2018 on Twitter and I decided to participate. I was exactly not knowing  what we were going to do except the thing that we have write a post in a week.

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As we started this challenge I actually understood the real meaning of Challenge. Here I am going to tell you few tips if you guys are planning to participate the Season-2 i.e. Superbloggerchallenge2019.

(This is based on my experience in the first 4 weeks challenges. May be I write few more at the end of this challenge )

7 TIPS TO BE SUCCESSFUL IN THE SUPERBLOGGERCHALLENGE 2019

1. Be Ready for the hardwork : 

If you think it is a simple blogging Challenge where you you have simply write and submit a post , then you are wrong. You have to really work hard on every aspect of blogging. You work determines the kind of passion you have for blogging. So, if you are making up your mind to participate, be ready to work day and night both( As the submission of post starts at 12 at night. If you want your post to be listed on the top amongst the others, keep your eyes open at night too)

2. Understand the rules well :

This is really an important part of the competition. Read the rules very carefully. Every participant has to strictly follow these rule. Failing to do so can bring you down in competition.

3. Complete the task on time:

Most of the tasks are time oriented. You have to complete the task within the given time limit. In this case, you have to spontaneous in your response keeping the time limit in mind. I remember there was an activity where we were suppose to give response to some prompt within 15 mins.

4. Write unique and quality content :

This is an important key to open the lock of success, not only for this blogging competition but also as a blogger . The better the content  more are the chances to appear in the search. This paves the road to success. Write the content that connects youwith your readers. They must feel your thoughts through your words.

5. Be social and interact with other participants :

Another mantra for this competition is to remain socially active on the different platforms of social media like twitter,Facebook, Google+,Pinterest etc. Promote your post alongwith other’s posts, comment and share. Remember  reading and writing goes hand in hand.

6.Try to participate in maximun activities :

Participation in maximum number of activities is not only for winning but also for your growth as a blogger. Do your homework whole heartedly . It will pay you in long run. There are many things which I have learnt in this 4 weeks of blogging. It helps you to groom as a blogger and polish your blogging skills. I never thought I will be able to write posts more than 500 words but I am writing it now.

7. Prepare yourself for surprises :

How can I forget my first earning through a microblogging activity in which I participated during this blogging challenge . This is one of the few surprises. I must say a Good Surprise.

Even early eliminations which none of us were aware of was a part of the suprise box. There are still many more to come in the coming weeks. So,Make up your mind for any surprise at any moment. 

Anything is possible on

Super blogger challenge !!!! 

These are the few tips that I have mentioned to win the hearts of admins and win the challenge.

A support system for participants  :

The admins are always there to guide you at every moment wherever and whenever you get confused . They have their own to motivate you at every step of Super Blogger Challenge.

I am still on my own way of learning and expecting a lot to learn in the coming weeks. I happy with my decision to participate in this challenge.

Whether you win in the challenge or not but I am sure you are going carry a lot of good memories with your mentors and other participants with a positive attitude towards blogging.

Note: This article has been written as a part of SuperBloggerChallenge2018 conducted by Healthwealthbridge.comFashionablefoodz.comAllaboutthewoman.com and should not be repurposed, republished or used otherwise. The content herein is owned by the blogger. SuperBloggerChallenge2018 is not responsible for any kind of infringement caused. 

☆ Whats your super secret tip to win  such blogging competitions?

Love is lost somewhere

Love, poem

They were strangers
Became friends
Fell in love

Time flew away
With it’s wide open wings

Situations whirled
circumstances changed
And they became strangers
Once again
 
Never thought
Destiny will bring them together
They met and their wrinkled face
Smiled at each other

Now they are trying to revive
the same old friendship
As love is somewhere lost
In the struggles of life

Via daily prompt : wrinkle

friday feature #4 post will be published tomorrow

Drink healthy with #Instacuppa

Instacuppa, fruit infuser,

A young , energetic, mentally and physically strong body is a dream of every person. Happiness also comes when you and the people around you are healthy and full of enthusiasm and energy.

Maintaining the health of every person in the family has always be a challenge for me. Their health requirements are different at different age. Kids have different demands while elders have their own expectations. Being a working woman we are already struggling with our own problems and other health issues. We keep on juggling between calcium tablets and multivitamins.

Boosting our health by taking tablets is not a good option when have an easy way to extract all these boosters from their natural sources. Nature has provided us with  everything. We have to just find out the best way to extract and utilize them in a healthy manner. The best way is to consume these vitamins and minerals is Fruit Infused Water.

FRUIT INFUSED WATER

Water is an essential part of our life. Our body is made up two- third of water. Adding the nutrients  directly to the water has a great advantages . This can be done by simply adding fruits to the water. This way is little messy because you have to sieve it before consuming .

In this fast moving world we have everything except time. I have always been looking for something which is easy to use , easy to handle and easy to clean. At the same time, it should be environment friendly and above all should have good quality.

INSTACUPPA FRUIT INFUSED  WATER BOTTLE

Instacuppa fruit infuser

Instacuppa fruit infuser bottle

While browsing I came across Instacuppa fruit infuse water bottle. It has all the features which I was looking in my fruit infuser.

While choosing a fruit infuser , it is always important to keep few things in mind regarding the quality of the product. Never compromise your health with the cheap quality products specially if they have plastic components. Buying such products may infuse you with lots of toxic substances and may affect your health adversely .

This is a reason for me to go for Instacuppa thermosteel fruit infused water bottle.

INSTACUPPA THERMOSTEEL FRUIT INFUSED WATER BOTTLE

Instacuppa fruit infused bottle

Instacuppa thermosteel fruit infused bottle

FEATURES:

Here are the few reasons for why I want this product.

  1. It is made up od Tritan a plastic which is BPA FREE( Bisphenol A), safe and durable.
  2. It is made of premium quality Steel and has matt finish.
  3. It has a separate bottle for keep fruits , hence need not to sieve before drinking.
  4. It is easy to clean due to wide mouth opening in both the containers.
  5. It consists of insulated water bottle alongwith fruit infuser.
  6. Easy to carry for both kids and elders.
  7. It comes with a free E- recipe book.

ONE SOLUTION FOR EVERYONE’S NEED:

I have planned many recipes using this magical healthy water:

  • Kiwi cucumber infused water.click here for recipe
  • Cucumber Detox water . Click here know more
  • You can make your own combinations. I love to have strawberry , kiwi ,mint and lemon infused water.

This products is not only going to make me healthy, happy,cheerful and energetic , it will also strengthen my bond with my family.Believe me, I can’t tell you the kind of satisfaction you feel when you know that you are giving real good to them. Something healthy which is going to boost their immunity. This is a real happiness and satisfaction. There are many other products which I would like to try. 

INSTACUPPA GREEN TEA INFUSER BOTTLE

 

Instacuppa green tea bottle

Green tea / coffee infuser bottle

The other one which I liked a lot is Green tea infuser. It  is going to help me to detox my body. Green tea is really good for us specially if you want to reduce fat.

A cup of green tea in a day keeps you slim trim and smart always .

The best  part of this bottle is that it is multipurpose. You can use it as fruit infuser, green tea infuser and you can make coffee too ( You know my love for coffee these days)

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If you too have made your mind to buy it like me or you want to know more about it, then don’t stop yourself moving towards the healthy way of drinking.

Click here to know more about there products.

Instacuppa has all the solutions. Choose the one according to you needs.

Adopt healthy drinking lifestyle with Instacuppa.

An instant easy solution for everyones need.

INSTACUPPA –FLAUNT THE STYLE WITH CONFIDENCE 

Note: This article has been written as a part of SuperBloggerChallenge2018 conducted by Healthwealthbridge.comFashionablefoodz.comAllaboutthewoman.com and should not be repurposed, republished or used otherwise. The content herein is owned by the blogger. SuperBloggerChallenge2018 is not responsible for any kind of infringement caused. 

What are your views about fruit infused water?Have you ever tried it?

Think Bigger

Life quotes, think bigger.

A true fact of life

There are many situations in life when you have to think bigger above your personal gains and benefits. Such decisions give you a self satisfaction and help you to grow as a good human beings .

Via daily prompt : fact

5 Things In My Travel Bag

Where the sun covers  the crown with silver
And the sand makes the golden path
Where the sound of rivers crosses my ears
I would like travel there with you
And with my travel bag !!!

If you are a traveller, you can understand my these poetic words well and the importance of the last line.
There is one thing which always accompany us , is a travel bag, either you are travelling alone or with your partner. You can’t imagine a trip without your travel bag . Can you ? Definitely not !

Travel, travel bag, things required for travelling

What excatly do you carry in your travel bag? The answer may vary from person to person but there are few things which you will find in every traveller’s bag such as camera, some dry snacks, a cap apart from passport , clothes etc. Once you are out from your place,it is really difficult to go back and get the things. So , pack your bag carefully and keep all the necessary things otherwise be ready to face hard time.(I have already face a lot of trouble due to this carelessness, which I will tell you later in the post)

5 Things in my travel bag:

1. Sunscreen and moisturiser :  

Who can challenge the Sun? No one , specially if you love your skin. I always carry a  suncreen to protect my skin. It’s SPF depend on the place I am visiting. I prefer high SPF when visiting a beach to avoid sunburn.

2. Phone charger and battery bank:  

I can’t afford to forget this. I remember when I paid more than double the price of my phone charger. I always carry my battery bank too because while visiting the different places in the city, you never know when does the battery of your phone say good bye ?

My travel essentials, travelling,

My travel essentials- sunscreen and mobile accessories

3. A pair of Sunglasses : 

I love my Raybans as it protects my eyes from sunrays and made me look smarter too.( as my friends say)

4. Basic make up essentials:

 I don’t like heavy make up. A simple BB cream, blusher, an eyeliner and  lipstick with some wet tissues are enough for me. You can also find my favourite deo in my bag. Don’t get surprised if you see an after shave as my better half always tell me to put it in my bag only. I think I can do this much for my love.

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My travel essentials- shades, make up accessories and sling bag

5. A small side bag:

I always put a small sling bag in my travel bag so that I carry few of the important things in it while going out of the hotel for city tour. It is must for a traveller.

Note: This article has been written as a part of SuperBloggerChallenge2018 conducted by Healthwealthbridge.comFashionablefoodz.comAllaboutthewoman.com and should not be repurposed, republished or used otherwise. The content herein is owned by the blogger. SuperBloggerChallenge2018 is not responsible for any kind of infringement caused. 

I am really curious to know what is in your travel bag ?

FRIDAY FEATURE POST #3

Friday Feature, blogging, new blogger

Hello Guys !

I  know you must  be eagerly waiting for the next FRIDAY FEATURE  – A time to know about a new blogger friend.

You already know about…..

Friday Feature #1 and friday feature #2

This week in #FF3 , I am going to introduce a person who is a fitness freak and a good cook too. He is managing a wonderful blog with other social media accounts.

Officially, let me introduce to you the next blogger and the blog of the Friday feature.

         FRIDAY FEATURE #3

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Blog NameMEN’S HEALTH AND LIFESTYLE
Blogger’s Name  – Silverio Tufano

About him : Silverio is from Italy and living in Seattle at present. His dream is to live a healthy lifestyle and be fit in physical and mental terms which he has now turned into reality.

About his blog : As the name suggests, his blog is about men’s health, fitness and lifestyle. He has great ideas for those who want be fit and gain muscles or lose weight.
He also writes about the food which is good for your healthy.

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Social Media Presence: He has a great instagram Page where he post the pics of latest food prepared by him. You can also keep yourself updated with his upcoming posts. He has started his YouTube channel and I am eager to see the recipes of delicious food made by him.

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My visit to his blog : Great ! Lot of information for those who want to be fit and go gym to achieve the goal. I liked his idea of keeping fitness journal. I enjoyed reading about his first ever subscription box.

Congratulations and Good Luck Silverio

Proudly announce on your blog that you are now an important part of friday feature bloggers team #ffbt

I believe there will be many who will get inspiration from your journey of weight loss.
Follow him on your favourite social media if you want to be healthy, fit and smart.

Keep in touch with my blog or my twitter account to know more about Friday Feature Post if you want to grow  your  community. Thanks to all those who have participated.

Leave your links here for next FRIDAY FEATURE #4

Be a proud blogger .

Remember!

Blogging has power to change you life

A shadow in my mind

Love , poem , quote , poetry

A shadow in my mind
Like ripples of water
Appears for a second
Next moment disappears

Never happened before
Strange but true
Is it with me only
Or it’s happening with him too?

Just a glimpse of his
And my heart was lost
I am melting like an snow
In the warmth of his  thought

I can’t see the sky above
As his aura made me blind
And the longing for him
Is difficult for me to hide

Is it love…..????

Via Daily prompt: Above

Pic credit: Google; edited by – Msarora