Impact of Social Media on our lives

Life is meant to enjoy at its fullest. What does enjoyment means to us.It means to play all day and night for a child. To roam about, travel , eat , sleep, drink are the few ways to enjoy the life. There are some new modern ways to enjoy life and find happiness in life. That includes watching favourite serials and movies on Netflix,Playing new interesting games online,posting pictures on Facebook,Twitter , creating stories on Instagram and Snapchat. This is not limited to kids and teenager but middle age also and even older people are also fond of this and had fallen in this Social Media Love.

Impact of Social Media Love on our lives

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There is no harm  falling in any kind of love till it does not affect your real life , relationship and physical and mental health. I have seen couples and families going for a dinner and instead enjoying their meals they are busy on their mobile phones, clicking pics and updating their status – ” Dinner with my sweet family or my love” .

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The food is on their table but they are making a video on Insta or Snapchat , finally waiting for Likes or Views. Sometimes they even wait to cross their last post views or comment or likes. In this process they forget the to enjoy the life in real means. These likes , tweets, comments, views, status, stories have become our lifelines.

Social Media Obsession

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Internet is both a boon and a curse for our lives. Rather it is true in every case. Everything is boon when used in limits e.g. sugar and salt both are important for our metabolism , when consumed in limits,over the limit leads to diabetes and high blood pressure .One should enjoy everything in limit.

People who remain active on these medias are sometimes get obsessed with it. They check their phones after every few minutes to check the latest updates on various Social Media Platforms. This is called Social Media Obsession. Their mind can’t think more than these numbers. Sometimes they get so obsessed with these stats that they forget what is happening around them. This can be hazardous for their physical and mental health and sometimes they can lose their precious lives too.

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I remember the incident happened where few friends were going for a drive. They made live Snapchat video. After a few minutes of posting this video online , their car met with an accident and they lost their lives.

Do you have a Social Media Addiction ?

It is high time that you should pay attention towards your habits and usage of social media to know about your addiction . Are you really obsessed with Social Media ?

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Here is a simple way to know about it. Take this Quiz just now before it becomes too late.

Why do I need to overcome Social Media Obsession / addiction ?

Yes, It is really important for you to overcome this addiction because it will never let you to be you in real life situations.  Your happiness will revolve around your online social profiles only. You real friends will be replaced by your virtual friends. This will lead to less social interaction. Your whole thinking process will be changed. You will not be able to take your own decisions. This is a kind of situation where your mind is working but not according to you, rather it will be under the control of your virtual personality .

What should I do to if I am obsessed with Social Media ?

You can not suddenly switch off your all Social Media profiles, delete all the accounts and apps from mobile.The effort has to be gradual. There are many ways to do so. One of the best to start with is SOCIAL MEDIA DETOXIFICATION which I will discuss in my next Post.

Till then think over it and share your views in comment section. Do you feel us toxifiying our relationships and our lives?

Ms Arora 💕💕

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A new start

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FRIDAY MOTIVATION

Let’s start a new with a new passion in life and find the happiness. Live life king size !!!!

Ms Arora 💕💕💕

(Read the full poem here to get inspiration and motivation )

Refuel the engine of your life

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When your life seems dull

And you can’t find a spark

Ignite the passion in you

Give your engine a new start

Sometimes you feel that the life has become so dull and boring. There is nothing around you that interests you more. You feel lonely and insecure.  That is the best moment when you can see your innerself and start a new.

When the days seem gloomy

And you have lost your way 

I am carrying a ray of hope

This all you have to say

The days seem too long and you get lost in your thoughts. Taking the decision becomes difficult. The muddled thinking creates a chaos in your life and you looking for a solution and answers to your questions . No , no one can give you the answers because the answers are hidden in your self . The spark , the hope and the answers are within you. Only and only you can understand these answers. Get connected with your tboughts and send positive vibes to your mind. Train your mind.

You will fall , you will lose

That can’t make you stop

Gather all the courage

Don’t let you inspiration drop

In the beginning, you will find it difficult. You will not get the desired results  but that doesn’t mean you lose you hope and stop doing this practice . This is the only way to find true happiness. The reason to be happy should lie within you. Why the outside world control your thoughts, your happiness. Be courageous. Discover  that true happiness which will ignite the engine of your life. Fill this new fuel to enjoy the journey of your life.

Ms Arora

How do you refuel the engine of your life?

I will be happy to discover the new ways to stay positive in life.

Friday Feature #5

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Welcome back to New Friday Feature Post

A hello to lovely readers !!!

Here comes the most awaited new friday feature post , featuring more than one blogger this time.

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Reason why I write Friday Feature Posts ?

During these #FRIDAY#FEATURE posts, I have met some wonderful people online who are so positive towards life and the people with whom they are connected. One of them is Helen  whom I featured on my previous friday feature post.

Why more than one featured blogger ?

As I promised, this month I am going to introduce some new bloggers who are trying to make a strong community here on WordPress . Secondly , I missed few #FF posts due to Super Blogger Challenge  . Talking about these featured bloggers, They are really wonderful.

Before I reveal the names, here is

A small request( Rules) :

  • Visit each other’s blog
  • Like , share or comment
  • Write a post a mentioning Friday Feature Posts and link to this post ( The only reason is to get connected with more bloggers,to grow our community )

Here are Friday Feature Bloggers :

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1. Blog name : life and lullabies 

About the blog – His site aims to express thoughts in different aspects, sharing connotations of life and love, creating meaningful meanings and extending horizons through writing.The content is expressed through beautifully by prose and poetry.

2. Blog Name :  Ujwalagaikwad

About the Blog: It is just her beginning and there is a long way to go. She has capacity to engage the readers through his writings.

3. Blog Name : Radicalzzradhika

About the Blog : The blog is about positivity of life and few tips for better happy life. She loves to write whatever comes in her mind.

4. Blog Name : Millennialhygge
About the blog : This blog is about Hygge (hue-guh) and hygge is a Danish term used to describe a cozy lifestyle. If that cup of coffee you’re enjoying right now gives you a warm fuzzy feeling inside… guess what?! That is hygge.

5. Blog Name : The Satin Scar 

About the blog : The blog is maintained by a young 22-year-old fashion student stepping on its first step of her career by entering the world of blogging. You will definitely fall in love with her blog

Congratulations to all of you !!!

A big thank you to all who participated. Believe me you too are very special for me.

Keep blogging and keep growing your community.

You Share this Friday Feature Post through WhatsApp, Facebook , twitter etc .

Ms Arora💕💕

Don’t forget to Vote for my blog as the last date is 30 May

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Self Promotion for a an upcoming Celebrity

You must be thinking of for which celebrity I am talking about ? It’s not wrong if I call myself as an upcoming celebrity.Why and how ? The story of this celebrity blogger is not a very old. It is just more than one year ago and the destiny of this blogger celebrity is now in your hands.( You will come to know at the end of this post)

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HERE IS THE BEGINNING OF THE STORY

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Till few months ago I was a blogger who was writing  blog as a hobby and wasn’t much aware about the many other aspects of it. It was a way to let my feelings , my observations around me and some imagination out. A started using various social medias to promote my blog and get traffic. I made a Facebook Page , a Twitter account , PInterest account ,Google+ account.

Apart from these Social Platforms , I joined some blogging sites like Indiblogger , Blogchatter and started posting on these sites. Then I came across many Indian bloggers who had much more experience than me. I enjoyed posting tweets and people started following me slowly. BUT STILL I WAS A BLOGGER NOT A CELEBRITY.

A TWIST IN THE STORY.

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I was still looking for A RECOGNITION  in this blogging world. One day while I was reading the tweets I came across a 10 WEEK BLOGGING CONTEST i.e.  Super Blogger Challenge 2018. I gave a thought and decided to participate. I wrote 10 posts in these 10 week challenge. The toughest part for me  was that I had to awake till midnight to post my my link to given site and getting up early in the morning for my day job. Not only this, I had to complete many task called as Homework. (I remember the one on Twitter which I did while having food and looking agter kids)

ON THE WAY TO BECOME CELEBRITY

Last week FINAL LISTS of the eligible candidates was revealed and YES , My name was in that list . I was more happy but ……..STORY CONTINUED

ONE STEP AWAY FROM BECOMING CELEBRITY

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There come toughest part for me- SELF PROMOTION. Asking for the votes. Many of friends and family members does not know actually that I blog. A have no idea how will they react or will they cast vote for me or will they understand my want to become an establised blogger. I am waiting for that one opportunity when I could proudly announce publically that YES , I am a blogger.

REASON FOR ASKING VOTE FROM YOU

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There are some people around me who are really supportive and will cast vote for me as they are handful BUT I HAVE A COMPLETE FAITH IN MY READERS. You are my true support and backbone of my blog. With you I can’t survive. Finally I decided to write this post particularly to make you know how important this win is for.

HOW TO CASTE VOTE i.e. SELF PROMOTION

Follow these  simple steps –

1. Click on the given link     

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  1. Scroll down the post.
  2. Look for POST AT NO. 12 ( MS ARORA )
  3. Click on the YELLOW STAR or VOTE and…….I am one step nearer to my dream .
  4. VOTING IS OPEN TILL 30 MAY

I have done my work by putting lots of hardwork and it is in you hands. MOVE YOUR ON THE LINK ABOVE AND SHOW THE MAGIC OF YOUR HANDS

LOVE YOU ALL

MS ARORA

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Be Proud

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If your passion is passion, then you are luckiest person in this world. Even if it is not, be proud of what you are doing. Have a wonderful Wednesday

Be Proud,Stay Happy

Ms Arora

Live for Yourself,Not for Society

Why do we need society ?

Live for yourself, not for Society, Why should we not always follow society

Human beings are social animals and their survival is not possible without it.We all are dependent on each other for many small and big needs. It is a web of many chains which are interlinked at many places. Missing a one chain can disturb the whole web or can create chaos.

How do society help us ?

We get up in the morning and look for newspaper. Think about the whole process of making of paper i.e. making of paper from trees , its processing , getting the news from all over the world, editing , printing and the people involved in all these work. Missing one link from and you can’t enjoy reading it with your cup of tea or coffee in the morning.

Is society is my responsibility ?

There are so many activities , works, assignments where we are depend on other people for the completion of our task. We all depend upon society and people who comprises society. Hence ,it is our resposibity to take care of our society in which we are living and the people who comprising the society.

Am I supposed to follow all the norms of society ?

The answer varies from person to person and society to society.  Since we are living in a society and it is our resposibility, doesn’t mean that you have to follow all the rules of society. As an individual you have a right to live the kind of life you want to live.

Sometimes social pressure make you feel suffocated and depressed. That time it is really neccessary to hear the voice of your heart. Rules are good till they give positive output and not kill your individuality.

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Live for yourself, not for society

Do what you want to do , live the way you want to live, you don’t need anyone’s permission. Live your life at your norms. Break the rules. The only thing you have to remember that your decision should not affect others life adversely

  • Look for your comfort : Just because my friend’s children are studying in a reputed school of the town doesn’t mean you are also forced to get your children admmitted in that same school. Look the needs of your kids and your comfort in all aspects.
  • Make your own choices  : Don’t worry about what people will say. Make your own choices in life. You do not want to get married – fine ! You want get married at 50 – Okay! Finally it is your decision and you are happy with your decision.
  • Wear what makes you happy : Give a damn look to those who comment on what you are wearing.  They are not supposed to decide for you. Wear what make you comfortable and confident .
  • Proudly show your identity : Wheither you are black or white, transgender or gay or person with special need , there is  no harm showing your true identity. Show what you are and society has to accept you as you are.
  • Live the way you want to live : You want to live in a small house or a big house , alone , in joint family or in a nuclear family , with kids or far away in countryside – live the way you want to live.
  • Eat what you want to eat – On one has a right to put restrictions on your liking. Do not stop yourself enjoying the food since you belong to a particular kind of community or people around you don’t like.

Note: This article has been written as a part of SuperBloggerChallenge2018 conducted by Healthwealthbridge.comFashionablefoodz.comAllaboutthewoman.com and should not be repurposed, republished or used otherwise. The content herein is owned by the blogger. SuperBloggerChallenge2018 is not responsible for any kind of infringement caused.

P. S. You may agree or may not agree with my views , It hardly matters as we all are different individuals and so our thoughts. I  respect your thoughts and your decisions as a member of the society .

Looking forward to read your introspection .

Ms Arora