Impact of Social Media on our lives

Life is meant to enjoy at its fullest. What does enjoyment means to us.It means to play all day and night for a child. To roam about, travel , eat , sleep, drink are the few ways to enjoy the life. There are some new modern ways to enjoy life and find happiness in life. That includes watching favourite serials and movies on Netflix,Playing new interesting games online,posting pictures on Facebook,Twitter , creating stories on Instagram and Snapchat. This is not limited to kids and teenager but middle age also and even older people are also fond of this and had fallen in this Social Media Love.

Impact of Social Media Love on our lives

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There is no harm  falling in any kind of love till it does not affect your real life , relationship and physical and mental health. I have seen couples and families going for a dinner and instead enjoying their meals they are busy on their mobile phones, clicking pics and updating their status – ” Dinner with my sweet family or my love” .

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The food is on their table but they are making a video on Insta or Snapchat , finally waiting for Likes or Views. Sometimes they even wait to cross their last post views or comment or likes. In this process they forget the to enjoy the life in real means. These likes , tweets, comments, views, status, stories have become our lifelines.

Social Media Obsession

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Internet is both a boon and a curse for our lives. Rather it is true in every case. Everything is boon when used in limits e.g. sugar and salt both are important for our metabolism , when consumed in limits,over the limit leads to diabetes and high blood pressure .One should enjoy everything in limit.

People who remain active on these medias are sometimes get obsessed with it. They check their phones after every few minutes to check the latest updates on various Social Media Platforms. This is called Social Media Obsession. Their mind can’t think more than these numbers. Sometimes they get so obsessed with these stats that they forget what is happening around them. This can be hazardous for their physical and mental health and sometimes they can lose their precious lives too.

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I remember the incident happened where few friends were going for a drive. They made live Snapchat video. After a few minutes of posting this video online , their car met with an accident and they lost their lives.

Do you have a Social Media Addiction ?

It is high time that you should pay attention towards your habits and usage of social media to know about your addiction . Are you really obsessed with Social Media ?

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Here is a simple way to know about it. Take this Quiz just now before it becomes too late.

Why do I need to overcome Social Media Obsession / addiction ?

Yes, It is really important for you to overcome this addiction because it will never let you to be you in real life situations.  Your happiness will revolve around your online social profiles only. You real friends will be replaced by your virtual friends. This will lead to less social interaction. Your whole thinking process will be changed. You will not be able to take your own decisions. This is a kind of situation where your mind is working but not according to you, rather it will be under the control of your virtual personality .

What should I do to if I am obsessed with Social Media ?

You can not suddenly switch off your all Social Media profiles, delete all the accounts and apps from mobile.The effort has to be gradual. There are many ways to do so. One of the best to start with is SOCIAL MEDIA DETOXIFICATION which I will discuss in my next Post.

Till then think over it and share your views in comment section. Do you feel us toxifiying our relationships and our lives?

Ms Arora 💕💕

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Refuel the engine of your life

Life quotes , happiness, journey of life continues

When your life seems dull

And you can’t find a spark

Ignite the passion in you

Give your engine a new start

Sometimes you feel that the life has become so dull and boring. There is nothing around you that interests you more. You feel lonely and insecure.  That is the best moment when you can see your innerself and start a new.

When the days seem gloomy

And you have lost your way 

I am carrying a ray of hope

This all you have to say

The days seem too long and you get lost in your thoughts. Taking the decision becomes difficult. The muddled thinking creates a chaos in your life and you looking for a solution and answers to your questions . No , no one can give you the answers because the answers are hidden in your self . The spark , the hope and the answers are within you. Only and only you can understand these answers. Get connected with your tboughts and send positive vibes to your mind. Train your mind.

You will fall , you will lose

That can’t make you stop

Gather all the courage

Don’t let you inspiration drop

In the beginning, you will find it difficult. You will not get the desired results  but that doesn’t mean you lose you hope and stop doing this practice . This is the only way to find true happiness. The reason to be happy should lie within you. Why the outside world control your thoughts, your happiness. Be courageous. Discover  that true happiness which will ignite the engine of your life. Fill this new fuel to enjoy the journey of your life.

Ms Arora

How do you refuel the engine of your life?

I will be happy to discover the new ways to stay positive in life.

Self Promotion for a an upcoming Celebrity

You must be thinking of for which celebrity I am talking about ? It’s not wrong if I call myself as an upcoming celebrity.Why and how ? The story of this celebrity blogger is not a very old. It is just more than one year ago and the destiny of this blogger celebrity is now in your hands.( You will come to know at the end of this post)

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HERE IS THE BEGINNING OF THE STORY

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Till few months ago I was a blogger who was writing  blog as a hobby and wasn’t much aware about the many other aspects of it. It was a way to let my feelings , my observations around me and some imagination out. A started using various social medias to promote my blog and get traffic. I made a Facebook Page , a Twitter account , PInterest account ,Google+ account.

Apart from these Social Platforms , I joined some blogging sites like Indiblogger , Blogchatter and started posting on these sites. Then I came across many Indian bloggers who had much more experience than me. I enjoyed posting tweets and people started following me slowly. BUT STILL I WAS A BLOGGER NOT A CELEBRITY.

A TWIST IN THE STORY.

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I was still looking for A RECOGNITION  in this blogging world. One day while I was reading the tweets I came across a 10 WEEK BLOGGING CONTEST i.e.  Super Blogger Challenge 2018. I gave a thought and decided to participate. I wrote 10 posts in these 10 week challenge. The toughest part for me  was that I had to awake till midnight to post my my link to given site and getting up early in the morning for my day job. Not only this, I had to complete many task called as Homework. (I remember the one on Twitter which I did while having food and looking agter kids)

ON THE WAY TO BECOME CELEBRITY

Last week FINAL LISTS of the eligible candidates was revealed and YES , My name was in that list . I was more happy but ……..STORY CONTINUED

ONE STEP AWAY FROM BECOMING CELEBRITY

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There come toughest part for me- SELF PROMOTION. Asking for the votes. Many of friends and family members does not know actually that I blog. A have no idea how will they react or will they cast vote for me or will they understand my want to become an establised blogger. I am waiting for that one opportunity when I could proudly announce publically that YES , I am a blogger.

REASON FOR ASKING VOTE FROM YOU

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There are some people around me who are really supportive and will cast vote for me as they are handful BUT I HAVE A COMPLETE FAITH IN MY READERS. You are my true support and backbone of my blog. With you I can’t survive. Finally I decided to write this post particularly to make you know how important this win is for.

HOW TO CASTE VOTE i.e. SELF PROMOTION

Follow these  simple steps –

1. Click on the given link     

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  1. Scroll down the post.
  2. Look for POST AT NO. 12 ( MS ARORA )
  3. Click on the YELLOW STAR or VOTE and…….I am one step nearer to my dream .
  4. VOTING IS OPEN TILL 30 MAY

I have done my work by putting lots of hardwork and it is in you hands. MOVE YOUR ON THE LINK ABOVE AND SHOW THE MAGIC OF YOUR HANDS

LOVE YOU ALL

MS ARORA

( do comment if you have done voting)

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Live for Yourself,Not for Society

Why do we need society ?

Live for yourself, not for Society, Why should we not always follow society

Human beings are social animals and their survival is not possible without it.We all are dependent on each other for many small and big needs. It is a web of many chains which are interlinked at many places. Missing a one chain can disturb the whole web or can create chaos.

How do society help us ?

We get up in the morning and look for newspaper. Think about the whole process of making of paper i.e. making of paper from trees , its processing , getting the news from all over the world, editing , printing and the people involved in all these work. Missing one link from and you can’t enjoy reading it with your cup of tea or coffee in the morning.

Is society is my responsibility ?

There are so many activities , works, assignments where we are depend on other people for the completion of our task. We all depend upon society and people who comprises society. Hence ,it is our resposibity to take care of our society in which we are living and the people who comprising the society.

Am I supposed to follow all the norms of society ?

The answer varies from person to person and society to society.  Since we are living in a society and it is our resposibility, doesn’t mean that you have to follow all the rules of society. As an individual you have a right to live the kind of life you want to live.

Sometimes social pressure make you feel suffocated and depressed. That time it is really neccessary to hear the voice of your heart. Rules are good till they give positive output and not kill your individuality.

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Live for yourself, not for society

Do what you want to do , live the way you want to live, you don’t need anyone’s permission. Live your life at your norms. Break the rules. The only thing you have to remember that your decision should not affect others life adversely

  • Look for your comfort : Just because my friend’s children are studying in a reputed school of the town doesn’t mean you are also forced to get your children admmitted in that same school. Look the needs of your kids and your comfort in all aspects.
  • Make your own choices  : Don’t worry about what people will say. Make your own choices in life. You do not want to get married – fine ! You want get married at 50 – Okay! Finally it is your decision and you are happy with your decision.
  • Wear what makes you happy : Give a damn look to those who comment on what you are wearing.  They are not supposed to decide for you. Wear what make you comfortable and confident .
  • Proudly show your identity : Wheither you are black or white, transgender or gay or person with special need , there is  no harm showing your true identity. Show what you are and society has to accept you as you are.
  • Live the way you want to live : You want to live in a small house or a big house , alone , in joint family or in a nuclear family , with kids or far away in countryside – live the way you want to live.
  • Eat what you want to eat – On one has a right to put restrictions on your liking. Do not stop yourself enjoying the food since you belong to a particular kind of community or people around you don’t like.

Note: This article has been written as a part of SuperBloggerChallenge2018 conducted by Healthwealthbridge.comFashionablefoodz.comAllaboutthewoman.com and should not be repurposed, republished or used otherwise. The content herein is owned by the blogger. SuperBloggerChallenge2018 is not responsible for any kind of infringement caused.

P. S. You may agree or may not agree with my views , It hardly matters as we all are different individuals and so our thoughts. I  respect your thoughts and your decisions as a member of the society .

Looking forward to read your introspection .

Ms Arora 

India at Commonwealth Games 2018 and 2010

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India has been doing well in the Sports for last few years at International level. Who can forget the wonderful memories of Commonweath Games held in India. Now is the time to see the rocking performances of our athletes in the Commomwealth Games 2018 in Australia.

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This time the Commonweath Games are being held at Gold Coast , Australia from 4 April to 15 April. There was a tough competition between Hambantota (Sri Lanka ) and Gold Coast City( Australia ) but the Gold Coast City won by getting 43 votes compared to 27 for Hambantota.

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Opening Ceremony of CWG 2018

There was a grand Opening Ceremony held at Carrara Stadium, officially opened by Charles, Prince of Whales. There are around 71 nations  participating  in 275 events. P.V. Sindhu was the flag bearer for India in the opening ceremony.

Indian team in CWG 2018
Indian team in CWG 2018

Performance of India in CWG 2018

Since we have entered in the last phase of the events , let’s see India’s performance so far: India has won  total 29 medals which include 14 Gold, 6 Silver and 9 bronze medal till date. The maximum medals are won in Shooting i.e. 12 followed by Weightlifting with 9 medals.

The performance of women needs an appreciation as they have won 7 gold medals with the total of 13 out of 29 medals.Men have done well by getting 15 medals .

Few of the names to be mentioned here are Sushil Kumar  in Men’s Freestyle 74 kg wrestling and Rahul Aware in 57kg . In Shooting , Shreyasi Singh , Heena Sidhu , Jitu rani,Poonam Yadav are few to mention here.

Future Events:

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Winning Moments for Indian hockey team

As hockey is our national game , we must look forward to get some medals. Women’s hockey team has played well but lost the chance to win bronze medal. Men’s hockey team has entered in the Semifinals. They have to face New Zealand  in Semi finals.

Let’s pray for them to come out as a winner.

Comparison between 2010 and 2018 Commonwealth games

It is difficult to compare the performance in both the Commonwealth games because the confidence goes to the next level when the host is your country. The crowd around you is so motivating , hence  you get bound to show your best. You put all your efforts to bring laurels to your country.

It was the first time in the history of Commonwealth Games India won 38 golds and more than 101 medals in 2010. It is not difficult to achieve the same rather more than that but we have to think how we take this Games.

Why not this time ?

Unfortunately, in India sports have never been given due importance . We want our kids to become doctors , engineers but not sports person. The life of a sportsmanis considered very hard and full of struggles.

People like you and me have to encourage our children to play games whole heartedly. Government has to play a major role in this . Many names which are shinning  today at this event will be lost in the coming years. Few lucky ones will survive for few months and then, they will become the history.

Role of media can also not be denied as they can run all the non sense news throughout the day as a Breaking news while the positive news are ignored as they can’t increase their TRP.

There is time to think above all these things and take a strong move towards building a nation which is much more capable of  doing this.

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Give some recognition to all those who are winning medals for the country so that feel proud to share their story with coming generation. We  are a country which has talent in every nook and corner hidden under the layers of soil.

Gear up to remove those layers of soil to bring that talent to the world.

Jai Hind , Jai Bharat 

Note: This article has been written as a part of SuperBloggerChallenge2018 conducted by Healthwealthbridge.comFashionablefoodz.comAllaboutthewoman.com and should not be repurposed, republished or used otherwise. The content herein is owned by the blogger. SuperBloggerChallenge2018 is not responsible for any kind of infringement caused.

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Grow Your Blog with Super Blogger Challenge

It is rightly said that participating in contest and challenges is always beneficial to our blog as we get more exposure to the world of blogging. We get a  chance to explore more bloggers and see the work done by them. I must congratulate you guys for arranging such an interactive session in Super Blogger Challenge 2018.  It was a new learning experience for me.

I have never witnessed such kind of  blogging contest where the participants get such a knowledge. It was more of online Course on blogging, that too, without paying a single penny. Rather we are looking to win some  prize money.

This week I am going share what all I have gained and the blogging tips that I have learnt from Dr Bushra and Dr Amrita.I have grown as a blogger under their guidance. A big thank you for showing us a path which will definitely bear the fruit in the future.

These are really the great tips for you dear bloggers and will definitely pay you in long run.

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SECRET REVEALED HERE :

1. Self hosted site –

The first and most important thing is to have a domain name and a self hosted site. It removes extension like wordpress.com. Brands prefer to work with proper domains.

2. Length of the post :

Try to write a lengthy post to appear in search engines. Generally a post with more than 1000 words perform better. A post between 500 to 1000 words is also not bad.

3. Consistency :

You have to show you presence online, hence , publish your post regularly on your blog and on the various social medias. Try to write atleast once in a week. If you are writing daily or twice in a week , it is really good for the growth of your blog.

4. Catchy headlines:

Try to write interesting and catchy headlines. Such headlines will attract readers. People have a tedency to read the posts those headlines start with how to do….. or ways to…… etc. There are  some tools are available online which can help you to create different headlines.

5. Tags and categories:

Choose your tags and categories wisely for each post. Tags should be according to the keyword. Try to have maximun two categories for each post, otherwise you will have a problem of duplicate content on your site.

6. H1, H2 tags:

According to the SEO practice , there should be only one H1 tag in a post and only one H2 tag. Try to include your keyword in the H1 tag. You can have more than two H3 tags.

7. SEO plug- in

SEo plug -in is must for any site eg Yoast Seo plug -in is great choice as helps you to find keywords and make you post SEO friendly. This in turns improve your chances to appear in seach engines and bring more traffic to your site.

8. Content :

Content is the heart and soul of any website. Write unique content and write the content which your readers love to read. Follow the  FOUR CONTEN PILLAR i.e. a blog niche, trending topics, affiliate links and contests.

9. Social Media :

Social media plays an important role in the growth of a blog. You get lot of traffic from Twitter, Facebook,Pinterest , Google+ etc. Make the accounts and post regularly on each platform. You can take help of Social media managing tools like Hootsuite, Buffer etc.

10. Linky Parties :

You can have linky parties where the other bloggers can leave the links to their blogposts. You can even have such parties on Twitter like friday follow train etc. You can start with your own Giveaways and contest like I have one on my blog where the bloggers can leave their links and get chance to get featured on my blog. Be creative in your way.

 

Remembere, there is no short cut to success. You have to work hard at  each and every step.

BE PATIENT AND WAIT FOR THE RIGHT TIME TO COME.

If you not got a chance to participate this year, don’t worry. Get yourself prepared  with me for SUPER BLOGGER CHALLENGE 2019.

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Note: This article has been written as a part of SuperBloggerChallenge2018 conducted by Healthwealthbridge.comFashionablefoodz.comAllaboutthewoman.com and should not be repurposed, republished or used otherwise. The content herein is owned by the blogger. SuperBloggerChallenge2018 is not responsible for any kind of infringement caused. 

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What is your love language?

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Well, this week I was finding bit difficult to choose the topic for writing the blog post. Finally I came up with an idea to write about LOVE,something which everyone is looking for in this world.

What is love ????

LOVE has always been the most difficult word to describe but yes, the best feeling which immediately changes your inner and outer environment. Nothing seems good without it. A world without love means an ocean without water. Not only human beings but all the the living creatures are  looking for it badly.

Do we express our love in a right way???

We have different ways to show are love for othets. Does the feeling you want to show are being correctly understood by othet person ? I doubt.

Sometimes, in our life a situation comes when we do our best to make our loved ones happy but the result comes out as a zero. Our attempt to make other person feel wanted and loved failed.We feel depressed and sad.

Why do we fail to understand the love expressed by others?

The answer to this question lies in the following examples.

● A wife cooks a special dish for the husband  on their anniversary. He tastes it and praises her but the wife is not happy??? Poor husband is not able to understand ! He has appreciated her efforts but she is reacting like this ???The reason being here that she was expecting a gift , may be a smaller one, on that particular day as her way to show love.(Gifts- a language of love for her)

Take one more example,

● Today is Janith’s mom’s birthday. She brings a beautiful bouquet and a dress of her choice to give her as a surprise. The mother is not happy????

The reason , she was not looking for the gift rather she wanted to spent some hours with her. ( A quality time – a language of love for her)

In both the cases, the language of love was different. The language of love for Janith was giving and receiving gift while for the mother was a quality time. Both were not able to understand the language of each other,both were not happy despite being putting efforts.

Same is the case in all the relationships. Most of the times we fail to understand the language of our partner, a friend, our children in our busy life. There is always a possibility that you language of love is different from the other person. You are expressing your love by giving gifts but the other person is expecting may be some quality time or some words of affirmations.

 Why should we know about different languages of love ???

You can make the other person feel eanted only if you know different languages of love .

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FIVE LANGUAGES OF LOVE

According to Gary Chapman, there are five languages of love.

1. Words of appreciation or affirmation

2. Giving or receiving gifts

3.  Acts of service i.e. taking care

4. Quality time

5. Physical touch such as hugs 

Every person has his own language of love. You have to understand the language of other person to make him feel loved. It is like speaking the same language for each other. For this you have to discover his language by putting your language aside.

Sometimes, you may have felt that your wife is never been happy inspite the fact that you are going to market , bringing the groceries or getting the kids ready for the school ,Yet she complains you that you do not love her .It is because you feel loved when other person does this for you.

Your language of love is showing care for other. Not neccesarily ,it is a her language of love also. May be she feel loved when you spent some quality time with her or a small hug from you or a small flower or chocolate.

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Discover the love languages of your loved ones.

We need to discover the language of each other. It is not only for married people but with kids too. If you are coming from a foreign tour and have brought  many gifts. You expect you child to be happy but she or he is not. May be he or she was expecting a tight hug ,not the gifts. Understand what the other person expect from you.

How can we make the other person feel loved??

By speaking their language of love .

In a nutshell, what is important to find the language of your loved loves so that you reciprocate the love in same manner and make the other person feel loved by putting your efforts in a right direction.

I am really thankful to  Gary Chapman    who has written such a wonderful book ( 5 languages of Love) that has helped me a lot to understand this concept of love and created a such a positive impact in my life.

Now you can answer to this question if somebody tell you – dear, you do not love me 😐

Tell that– I love you but my way if expressing love is different from you. Please understand .

If the person feels difficult to understand – Show this article and tell him or her to read😉😉

Feel free to share on WhatsApp or facebook or any other social media to make the world understand the languages of love.

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