Secret ways to create the Perfect time

What does the perfect time means? Does the perfect time really exist ? Or it is a state of mind which creates it ?

Every single second is a replica of the other second. These exactly the same 60 seconds make a minute which in turn make hours , days, weeks, months and so on. The control on this small identity of time is unaltered and beyond the control of our capacities. Every single second is Perfect by its own. Then why do we keep looking for that perfect time ? Is the moment in which you are living and witnessing is imperfect ? If you ask this question to yourself ,the reply you will get somewhere from the core of your heart is – NO.

It is we who are unable to understand the nature and power of time. It is we who are lacking in terms of efforts or attitude. Our inhibitions and insecurity is leading to give such results and keeping us away from making this moment perfect.

How can we make this moment perfect to start with? Why are we keep on waiting for that perfect moment ? Why are we doubtful about this present moment ?

We should not waste your time and energy for waiting the moment which is yet to come. Start with what you have just now with you. You are the creator of your future. You are the one who has a magic to make your dreams come true. Start making your perfect moments now. This is the perfect time to make your life what you have dreamt of.

How can you make this moment a Perfect moment ?

Every person has his own secrets to unwrap the success or happiness in his life. The formula which has worked for me may or may not work for you. There is no closed door to the better future , only the ways to open it may be different . The treasure is just under your feet. You have to start digging just now. Some may get it in few feet down the earth or others may have to go little deep. The later you start , the more time you have to wait.

I am listing here few ways to start with. Try it to make this moment the perfect moment.

  • Start believing in yourself

The very first step is to start believing in yourself and in your efforts. People may raise doubts about you and even your ideas. They may see you as worthless. Don’t get disheartened. Believe me , They are ignorants as they can’t see your mind and your planning.

  • Weave your thoughts

There are many thoughts and ideas which keep on popping up in your mind. Before these valuable strings in mind get entangled , write it down. At first these may appear bit confusing . Later you can sort out them one by one according to your goal.

  • Work upon the pathways

There are many different roads to reach at one destination. Study the map carefully to choose right path. It may possible that the road has still not built to your destination. No worries. Make a new one. It will not only be beneficial to you but for others too.

  • Read and research

Read some books. It can be a motivational book , a success story , a biography or a travelogue. Every book has a lesson for life and a way to solve the mystery of hidden truths. Research the topic online and offline both. Listen the people carefully. You can get a lots of ideas to make your that moment perfect.

  • Don’t be afraid of failure

I always believe that failure are the stepping stones to success. Do not be afraid to fail. Take a example of the famous Bollywood actor Amitabh Bacchan who once wanted to leave Bombay ( presently Mumbai ) thinking that this city is not meant for him. Look at he destiny, the same city made him a well known personality in the world. He has faced the failures many a times but did not stop.

  • Accept criticism

People will criticise you for your actions. Accept it as a part of your success story. The one who are criticising you today will be your admirers one day. Deeply go through those words and sentence. Analyse and interpret to see whether they are worth for. Keep your attitude with you.

  • Be ready with plan A, B or C

Make a plan A and start doing planning on a paper. Write its pros and cons. If it works well , good but if it isn’t ? Make sure you have plan in your hand. Never ever think to stop on the way. Keep on going till you achieve what you want to.

Start doing smart work with hardwork. A perfect combination of both will bring you closer to your perfect time quickly.

Life is what you make it. So , let’s make this moment a Perfect moment. Don’t wait for tomorrow as tomorrow never comes.

Aurora M

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Sunshine love

Sunshine love through window

Peeping through the window
Getting little dimmer
May be jealous of my shine
Let the love be simmer

Leaving behind few colours
Now hidden in the sky
No way to bring it back
Neither I fly so high

The only way is to wait
Till he rises up again
With more of sunshine
To take all the pain

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Develop attitude of gratitude in your child

Attitude of gratitude, journey of life continues, blogchatteratoz

Teach your children to express gratitude towards all the blessing of this life. Say thank you for this beautiful life , the green nature , the air , and the endless opportunities of everyday life….

Develop attitude of gratitude in them.

Aurora M

Beware! You are feeding chemicals to your kids

Food habits, child heath , chemicals in food

As a parent we always want to give our kids best be it food or thoughts. Sometimes unknowingly or due to ignornance we get indulge in the wrong food practices which can adversely affect the heath of young children. The food we are giving to them become reason for their heath hazards through the chemicals containing in them. Here is list of few chemicals and wrong practices which we are following and need a check :

  • Ajinomotto in Chinese food – Have you ever thought why your child likes more the outside food and why does it tastes better compared to the one we make at home. It is because they add Ajinomotto ( Mono sodium glutamate) or MSG , a very harmful and carcinogenic chemical if taken at large quantities. This also present in processed food and packed food.
  • Artificial Colours – When we have so many colours in our natural food why do we need to to give such artificial things to our kids. Food prepared in restaurants is full of colour as they add it to make it more appealing . These chemicals can enhance the symptoms of ADHD in children.
  • Caffeine – If summers means cold drinks for your kids then you are spoiling your kids. High in sugar content and caffeine can not be comprised with natural drinks .
  • Bisphenols like BPA- can cause problems with your child’s immune system and interfere in puberty too. It is mainly found in 3 and 6 number plastic.
  • Heating and reheating in plastic – When you cook food and reheat the food in plastic in microwave, it makes the food poisonous. Even you should avoid putting the hot food in Tiffin boxes if they are of plastic.

Healthy food practices to follow

  • Choose fresh and home made food over packed and outside food. Once in while it is ok.
  • Prefer to cook meal fresh and consume immediately.
  • Use glass container to reheat in microwave if required .
  • Prefer steel tiffin and water bottles for kids .
  • Use cloth napkin instead to foil paper to wrap food in lunch.
  • Make home made sharbats in summers.
  • Use natural colours while cooking food e.g. turmeric or saffron for yellow or beetroot for red or pink colour.
  • Do heathy shopping for your family

Do you have any information or tips regarding this topic. Do share in comment section.

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Imperfect perfect World of woman #happywomen’sday

Happy Women's Day, acid victims , inspirational, empowered woman

Whether I am zero figure or not
But I am beautiful

No matter I have scars on my skin
Yet I am beautiful

Acid ruined my face, not my soul
Hence, I am still beautiful

I need not to be empowered
I am a power

This is a beauty of me….

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I am happy with my plus size as it does  not describe my talent, the love for other human beings and my ability to fight with adverse situation. It does hinders my path towards my success.

The scars on my body make my feel proud as the seed of new life florish in my womb. These keep me reminding the life is in me , I am a life.

My soul has become more stronger. The acid on my face has not ruined the beauty of my soul. I am still a part of this world. I faith in myself has not been shaken.

My imperfect world is a perfect world for me.

I am a power because I am a Woman.

Happy Women’s Day to all!

Ms Arora💕💕

As a Woman , what do you feel about your imperfect yet perfect world of yours? Express proudly in the comment section.

Life is what you make it

This blog post is for all those who want to make their life worthwhile.

There is question that strikes everyone’s mind when they sit alone – What is life ??? Some think that life is a challenge, for few it is a gift of God. To me , Life is what you make it .

It is in your hand how you shape it. Your tomorrow essentially depends on what you do today. Whether it is winning a bride or battle , fame or fortune , power or position, wealth or worldly goods, success in life depends on proper planning and execution of the plan.

Sometimes it comes to mind what turns and ordinary into extraordinary . May be it is the extra we put into it. Just like champion who puts all he has into his every punch. Thus, the best way to rise above the crowd is to the ordinary with extraordinary enthusiasm.

Put your the wheel on your shoulder and start working hard. Do not waver , do not hesitate. Do not doubt about your abilities, but keep going and going. Carry your attitude in your life in righteous way.

Do not forget, there is no short cut to success and distinction. It is a sweat of your brow , you will earn your bread. You have to talk and look like a winner. Have faith. Nothing is impossible for him that believth.

Take heart , be bold and open a new chapter of your life. Dedicate your energies , imagination , intellect, resources and time towards the realisation of your chosen and worthy goal. One step at a time and that well placed will guarantee your victory.

So ,open your hands to explore the world of opportunities and mould the life the way you want it to be…!!!

Best wishes to all all my readers for the best of their lives !!!

Ms Arora💕💕

(I found this article written in one of my old notebook in year 2002 and thought to share it with you )

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Do you know about your Green tea?

We all have been talking about detoxification by green tea these days. Have you ever thought from where the concept of green tea has come from ?

Few weeks back I visited a typical chineese restaurant and they served us green tea with the food we ordered. So I decided to explore more about it . Through my research I came to know about many interesting facts.

You all are well aware about the benefits of having green tea. But the interesting fact is that the not all green teas are made up of tea leaves. Green tea includes other plant products too.( Read the complete post to know more about it)

Green teas

Origin– Green tea has been originated in China. It was first made in 2737 BC during the reign of Emperor Shennong – a mythical sage. Soon drinking tea in China became the social ritual. Even in India till date , the guests are welcomed with a cup of tea ( may not be green tea always 😉)

Some of the famous Chineese teas are –

  • Lu’an Melon Seed – It has no relation with melon seed. Actually tea leaves look like melon seeds when dried and processed.
  • Chun Mee – This is also a famous green tea. It is less sweet in taste compared to other green teas.
  • Xinyang Maojian tea – It has fragnant aroma and strong floral smell.

In Japan, people gift the green tea on special occasions as they believe that it is a symbol of a good health and a long life. It is perfect gift for Valentine too. Some of the famous Japanese Green teas are –

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  • Mugicha – It is famous as summertime drink in Japan . Interesting fact is , it is not made of tea leaves rather made of roasted barley infused in water. Hence , it is caffeine free.
  • Genmaicha – It is made from green tea leaves and roasted rice. Hence , slightly bitter in taste.
  • Matcha – A very famous green tea having , full of green colour due to high amount of chlorophyll present in it. It is usually in powdered form. Read more about Japanese tea here

Recently during my visit to Australia , I got a chance to have a sip of T2 Blue Sage Shoes green tea. ( T2 Tea is famous in Australia for different types of green teas and have many outlets there ). It is made from Gen Mai cha( a combination of roasted rice , green tea , popped rice) , rosehip seeds , sage , spirulina, blueberries, cornflower and sunflower petals. Isn’t it great !

So guys ! Do explore the flavours of these green teas with this tea infuser and enjoy the health benefits with all new flavours. It is easily available at very affordable prices.

My latest edition in green tea is Ginger tumeric organic green tea. What is in your cup ?

Do you want to share your green tea experience with us ? Leave the comment below. I am eager to know.

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Your attitude matters in your life

#journeysays,Attitude in life ,journey of life continues #lifequotes

Yes! Attitude matters a lot.

Carrying the right attitude can have a magical impact on your life. It is only the God who knows what is written on the next page of your life. It comes in front of you once it is written. You have no eraser to erase nor you can cut and rewrite. So prepared to confront every situation that comes in your life.

As the William Shakespeare says

There is nothing either good for bad  but thinking made it so. It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.

We are in a world where people criticise more than appreciate. They try to find faults in each and every task you do. They laugh when you fall and they jealous when you grow. Many a times you fall just before the finishing line. That is when they celebrate. You feel broken, tired….as if the pieces of glass shattered on the floor.

So what is in our hands ????

Attitude ! Your attitude towards these problems is your strength. It can not only the save you from the unwanted situations but brings you out from the deep troubles. Positive attitude may not solve the problem but it can make a way to do so.

Right attitude at right time brings out the stronger shade of your personality.

#journeysays

It becomes easy for you to put forward your thoughts as you enforce the other person to listen to you. The way you speak, the words you use and your tone represent your attitude.

Attitude plays an important role at your work place too.

Work becomes easier if you have a positive attitude towards your profession. Ask yourself if you are enjoying the work you are doing ? Are you striving towards the goals of your company ? Is your profession or salary is making your personal life better ? Answers to these few questions will decide the attitude towards your job or profession.

“Whatever happens, just keep smiling and lose yourself in Love” says Rumi.

Smile on your face can put the people into a big trouble specially when they have tried to hurt you . That will get confused about their actions. Such an attitude will keep you at peace , without being affected. This smile will act as a shield.

“Style is a reflection of your attitude and your personality” says Shawn Ashmore.


The attitude comes from not what you wear but how you carry yourself and present yourself in front of other. Swami Vivekananda’s iconic speech in Chicago is still in our ears. His words will always inspire the youth. He didn’t bother what he was wearing as it was different from what those people used to wear. His attitude came out rightly through his words and his personality.

“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it” says Bruce Lee.

Your attitude is what you own. You need not to look around and see how people are looking or solving the problems in their life.  Wear your own attitude. You need not to borrow from others. Your life is your own. So be the master of your life. Walk with the right attitude and see how it works for you. You have to live for yourself , not for society.

Remember what Zig Ziglar, the American author and motivational speaker said:

“It is your attitude, not your aptitude, that determines your altitude.”

There is lot to learn from this motivational speaker who always carried a positive attitude throughout the hurdles he faced in his life. His right attitude towards the life in the end gave him a success. He transformed his failures , loses and falls into the stairs to reach at the top. Failures are stepping stones to success

Such real life stories always motivates us. Another example is Dr Seuss who was rejected many a times. He turned the harsh voices of engine into words inthe ship. Nobody believed in his creative way of writing. Today he is the favourite among the children.

Are we carrying the right attitude in our life ?? Has ever the changing the attitude towards a problem changed the whole scenario??? Think about that moment !!

What do you think ? Share your views and comments.

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Shattered pieces

Broken pieces of glass , poem , positivity, poetry ,journey of life

Shattered on the floor
Few sparkling glass pieces
Each has its own story
Yet the same feeling

Afraid of sharing

Hidden in the deep dark

Away the sight ,

so eerie,with no spark

With the four walls around
Years and years passed
No one could see them
Barely got touched

On the other side of wall

Was a different story

Someone was waiting

To change the fate

A streak of light
Far from the sky
Took some pains
To make a way

Startling through the roof

Moving away the dust

Chiseled out the air

Touched the faces of those

Just touched a corner
And activated all the particles
Up and down , left n right
Kindled the dormant enery

Gave a new birth

To all those pieces

As the prismatic light

Was scattered all around.

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Try these Website for new online shopping experience

Online shopping has not only a trend these days but a need too. Due to our busy schedules we prefer to buy online. The other reason to shop online is the availability of the wide range of products and star ratings by the customers and reviews. Amazon , Mantra , Jabong has been leading in this competition. Wide range of products are available in these sites. There are some other websites too who are worth trying because of the offers they give or the products are more specific.

Here are the list of few websites falling in this category. You must experience once from these website .

  • NYKAA – This is website which provides a wide range of beauty products from brands. If you want to get your dressing area look full , you must visit once. They have luring offers which you can’t resist. Maybelline, Lakme, Nude , Olay , Milani , Kaya are few to mentions from more than 700+ brands. First time users get 2000 rewards point too.
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  • SMYTTEN – If you are the one who want try a sample first before actually the product ,then this website is meant for you. Start8ng from fragrances, mists and accessories to Jams , marmalade , chocolates , crackers etc. Some of the products are different to try ! I ordered few samples and found really good especially the coffee.
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  • GETGROWFIT – If you are fitness freak or you are on a special diet , you can order the food here. KETO products , gluten free products , sugar free cookies , Bamboo seed dosa mix are few to mention here. As last month I was on keto diet , I orfered low carb Keto flour mix and enjoyed the goodness of chapati being a North Indian. You can even choose a plan and consult to get the recommend products.
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  • NURSERYLIVE – Apart from food and beauty product, if you are looking for something you could enjoy with nature and green surroundings, check out this site. Even if you don’t have a big garden , you can order some pots , seeds , air purifier plants. There is everything available which you need for your garden or plants. Even you can order different types of pebbles and miniature garden toys to give a new look to your garden and pots.
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So , What are you waiting for ???? Go , check out these website and send some money for yourself and your garden. If you have idea about few more sites like this , do share with us !!!