Secret ways to create the Perfect time

What does the perfect time means? Does the perfect time really exist ? Or it is a state of mind which creates it ?

Every single second is a replica of the other second. These exactly the same 60 seconds make a minute which in turn make hours , days, weeks, months and so on. The control on this small identity of time is unaltered and beyond the control of our capacities. Every single second is Perfect by its own. Then why do we keep looking for that perfect time ? Is the moment in which you are living and witnessing is imperfect ? If you ask this question to yourself ,the reply you will get somewhere from the core of your heart is – NO.

It is we who are unable to understand the nature and power of time. It is we who are lacking in terms of efforts or attitude. Our inhibitions and insecurity is leading to give such results and keeping us away from making this moment perfect.

How can we make this moment perfect to start with? Why are we keep on waiting for that perfect moment ? Why are we doubtful about this present moment ?

We should not waste your time and energy for waiting the moment which is yet to come. Start with what you have just now with you. You are the creator of your future. You are the one who has a magic to make your dreams come true. Start making your perfect moments now. This is the perfect time to make your life what you have dreamt of.

How can you make this moment a Perfect moment ?

Every person has his own secrets to unwrap the success or happiness in his life. The formula which has worked for me may or may not work for you. There is no closed door to the better future , only the ways to open it may be different . The treasure is just under your feet. You have to start digging just now. Some may get it in few feet down the earth or others may have to go little deep. The later you start , the more time you have to wait.

I am listing here few ways to start with. Try it to make this moment the perfect moment.

  • Start believing in yourself

The very first step is to start believing in yourself and in your efforts. People may raise doubts about you and even your ideas. They may see you as worthless. Don’t get disheartened. Believe me , They are ignorants as they can’t see your mind and your planning.

  • Weave your thoughts

There are many thoughts and ideas which keep on popping up in your mind. Before these valuable strings in mind get entangled , write it down. At first these may appear bit confusing . Later you can sort out them one by one according to your goal.

  • Work upon the pathways

There are many different roads to reach at one destination. Study the map carefully to choose right path. It may possible that the road has still not built to your destination. No worries. Make a new one. It will not only be beneficial to you but for others too.

  • Read and research

Read some books. It can be a motivational book , a success story , a biography or a travelogue. Every book has a lesson for life and a way to solve the mystery of hidden truths. Research the topic online and offline both. Listen the people carefully. You can get a lots of ideas to make your that moment perfect.

  • Don’t be afraid of failure

I always believe that failure are the stepping stones to success. Do not be afraid to fail. Take a example of the famous Bollywood actor Amitabh Bacchan who once wanted to leave Bombay ( presently Mumbai ) thinking that this city is not meant for him. Look at he destiny, the same city made him a well known personality in the world. He has faced the failures many a times but did not stop.

  • Accept criticism

People will criticise you for your actions. Accept it as a part of your success story. The one who are criticising you today will be your admirers one day. Deeply go through those words and sentence. Analyse and interpret to see whether they are worth for. Keep your attitude with you.

  • Be ready with plan A, B or C

Make a plan A and start doing planning on a paper. Write its pros and cons. If it works well , good but if it isn’t ? Make sure you have plan in your hand. Never ever think to stop on the way. Keep on going till you achieve what you want to.

Start doing smart work with hardwork. A perfect combination of both will bring you closer to your perfect time quickly.

Life is what you make it. So , let’s make this moment a Perfect moment. Don’t wait for tomorrow as tomorrow never comes.

Aurora M

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Make memories for tomorrow

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What we do today will the the past next moment. It is our decision what we want to do today and how to react in a particular situation. Keep in mind , it is we who make the memories for tomorrow. Decide today, what kind of memories you want to enjoy in your future ! 

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Why should we ignore few things in life ?

Sometimes you have to ignore few things in your life to keep your life going on smoothly and make yourself happy.
As a river can’t stop flowing taking all the big rocks and small pebbles into consideration while moving in its own way …..Same is the rule for life. 
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“Ignorance is bliss” is a phrase coined by Thomas Gray , a famous poet and historian in his poem – Ode on a Distant Prospect of Eton College

He writes in the last lines of the poem –

   To each his sufferings: all are men,
Condemn’d alike to groan—
The tender for another’s pain,
Th’ unfeeling for his own.
Yet, ah! why should they know their fate,
Since sorrow never comes too late,
And happiness too swiftly flies?
Thought would destroy their Paradise.
No more;—where ignorance is bliss,
‘Tis folly to be wise.

Ignorance to me is sometimes bliss !!!

Yes , Ignorance is bliss sometimes.

Ignore those people who doesn’t believe in you , in your capabities and always doubt about your achievements.
They want to divert your attention from your work.

Ignore those who laugh on you because they are jealous of you. They want to be like you , but they can’t.  They are frustrated as they have not achieved anything in their lives.
Ignore whose say you to stop. They can’t walk a mile so they don’t want you to a take a step forward.

World always give importance to those who do not get tired even after they follow the same routine. Time doesn’t stop ! Sun never get tired !

Ignore the outer world to awaken you inner world. Live for yourself.

Ignore everthing that can block your mind and make you incompetent to reach to your goal.

Recently I have found a very good video taking about the same. Do watch it !

Take what is important , consider what is helpful , believe what brings positivity and you will be on the top of the world , standing happily enjoying the fruit of your labour.

From there look down on all those whom you ignored once on your path. They are still there , with no sense of satisfaction. They are still there with no aim in life. They may not be seeing you because they are still busy laughing on others. But you can see them from the top because you know how to move forward in life.

Imagine if you would have considered them , you would too have been a part of that mob. Now feel proud on yourself as you took a right decision to ignore them….!!!

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Effective ways to achieve goals in life

Can you make a house in a day ? Offcourse not ! It starts with a one small brick and adding more one by one on each other and joining them together with cement . This makes a strong wall. The process continue for the other wall and the next .  It takes time. So is the process to achieve the goals in life.

Effective Way To achieve goal in life

There is no short cut to achieve a big goal. Be persistent, stay foccused and do hardwork are the few well knowm mantras of success. There is no one in the world who can say that he has become succeessful or achieved something big in life without doing any hardwork. Even if someone says do not believe in. May be he or she does not want to share it with you.
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I have seen many people do not disclose their struggles as they do not to remember that hard time or they are afraid the others will use the same stratergy and will come up !

Follow these few mantras to achieve  your goal and become successful:

Goals , effective ways to achieve goals

Stay focussed :

There should be only one thing in your mind that is your GOAL since morning till night.Your mind should always be thinking about it. People may tease you but do not pay heed to them. Just keep going !

Stay Calm:

Effective way to achieve goals

There may be adverse or challenging situation but  you have to stay calm. Do not be panic in any case. Your mind can only work properly when when you are at peace. Do meditation or exercise. Start your day well

Be persistent :

Keep on adding a little effort everyday.  No matter how small it is. Do not think to do a lot once and then sit and relax. Do you remember the story of The Hare and The Tortoise ! Maintain the flow.

Do Planning:

Make a real life plan keeping your daily responsibities in your mind. It will work in a better way for you . A plan which does not include ground realities fails .

Accept Failures:

Effective Way To achieve goal

Be ready to accept failures and learn from them. This is what we call an experience later. Learn from your mistakes and next time, do the corrections and perform in a better way.

Be a learner:

Never think that you know each and every thing. There is always a scope for learning. Learn from nature , your collegeaus , your friends no matter they are younger or elder to you. Listen their experiences.

Maintain healthy competition:

The most important thing is to maintain healthy competition with other. Never be jealous or sway away with pride. Have a competition with yourself. False pride or negative competition kills the creativity , so avoid them !

Above all….

Is required

HARDWORK

Nothing in life can be achieved without hardwork. It is the best key to unlock the lock of success and achieve the goal . Come out from your comfort zone.

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Even after putting all the efforts you do not succeed or achieve your goal. STAY POSITIVE. Start again….. You will get what you want ! I would like to quote the dialogue from the movie Om Shanti Om ( A hollywood movie) where Shahrukh khan says :

Kehte hain ki …… Agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaaho to puri kayanat usey tumse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai.

 It is said that …… if you want something from heart, then the whole process and every power in the world takes it into trying to match you.

Do you agree with me ? Do share your your success mantra in comment section .

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Good luck to all  who are trying to achieve something big in life including me !!!!

Ms Arora💕💕

Friday Feature #7

A big Hello to all lovely people there. Hope you are in good spirits and enjoying blogging. As we are moving towards the next episode of it , I am finding it difficult to choose one out so many nominations where all are equally good. Since I have to , here comes the next

FRIDAY FEATURE #7

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Name of the blogger : CINDY KOLBE

Name of the blog :   STRUGGLING WITH SERENDIPITY

About her : She has been a lifelong disability advocate, even before her daughter’s spinal cord injury. She managed group homes, ran a non-profit, and taught literacy to adults with disabilities at a state institution. An active volunteer, she served on the Ohio Swimming Board of Directors as Adapted Chairperson for swimmers with a disability.

About her blog : Her blog is an incredible story of goals, adventures, and accidents, both fortunate and otherwise.. It shares the highlights of our story and explores the power of perspective, connection, and community.  

My visit to her blog : I am happy that I have found her blog. She has a remarkable personality filled with shades of love and compassion for humanity. She is a strong  lady. Her posts teaches us a way to face the difficulties of life in a positive manner and proves that our strong will is our power to win life.

Social Media Presence : Her Facebook page is really inspiring and motivating. It includes few glimpses of her life moments. I felt as if I know her since so long after visiting her page.

Dear Cindy

Congratulations for being a part of my Friday feature !

You are looking so sweet in Indian  and Beth is looking so beautiful in Indian attire. Give lots of love to your daughter, Beth. God bless your family always. 

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Looking forward to read your blogs.

HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEKEND.

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Start your day with positive thoughts to stay happy

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Everyday is a new day. When we get up in the morning, we start a fresh . That moment is the moment on which our whole day depends. Never start your day with something negative or with worries. Always start your day with some positive thoughts. If you will start your day with a positive thought and as a fresh new day , definitely your day will go smooth , with no worries at all . Even if you would have to face any adverse situation ,you will find yourself capable of bringing it under your control.

Coming out from the bed or leaving the comfort zone is difficult or a challenge for some( usually switch off the alarm and wait for five minutes to get up and that 5 mins become 1 hour at times) but who has succeeded in his life being in his own comfortable zone ? Taking up a new challenge is life. There are different ways to motivate yourself in the morning. 

Your first thought decides how your day would be , hence, start your day with what you love to do. What can be better than motivating yourself by recognising your strengths and God given gift of life.

Get up in the morning and say thanks to God for giving you one more day to enjoy life. Look at your hands and see how beautiful they are ! With these hands you can achieve whatever you want ! You can say this beautiful Shaloka in Sanskrit too which is perfect way to start your day.

“The Force” is in your hands – कराग्रे वसते लक्ष्मीः

lakShmI in the finger tips, saraswatI on the palm |
shaktI is situated in the wrist, it is auspicious to see the hands ||

कराग्रे वसते लक्ष्मीः, करमध्ये सरस्वती ।
करमूले स्थिता गौरी, मंगलं करदर्शनम् ॥

karAgre vasate lakShmIH, kara-madhye saraswatI |
kara-moole sthitA gaurI, mangalaM kara-darshanam ||

You can hang or keep a picture of someone you admire the most as this will keep you going no matter what the situation is throughout the day. Wish your parents if you are living with them. Look out for the greenery , the nature , your pet with a smile on your face. 

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Just doing this much will fill you with lots of happiness and you will feel blessed.

Don’t let others define you , create your own definition.  If you are not happy with this definition , create a new ! Be the master of your life ! Feel like a bird, light……! Inspire youself….! Motivate yourself……! This is your new day…..!

SAY GOOD MORNING TO YOURSELF….!

GOOD MORNING MS ARORA!!!
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How do you motivate yourself in the morning??? How do you start your day ? Share your views and ideas.

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A new start

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FRIDAY MOTIVATION

Let’s start a new with a new passion in life and find the happiness. Live life king size !!!!

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(Read the full poem here to get inspiration and motivation )

Refuel the engine of your life

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When your life seems dull

And you can’t find a spark

Ignite the passion in you

Give your engine a new start

Sometimes you feel that the life has become so dull and boring. There is nothing around you that interests you more. You feel lonely and insecure.  That is the best moment when you can see your innerself and start a new.

When the days seem gloomy

And you have lost your way 

I am carrying a ray of hope

This all you have to say

The days seem too long and you get lost in your thoughts. Taking the decision becomes difficult. The muddled thinking creates a chaos in your life and you looking for a solution and answers to your questions . No , no one can give you the answers because the answers are hidden in your self . The spark , the hope and the answers are within you. Only and only you can understand these answers. Get connected with your thoughts and send positive vibes to your mind. Train your mind.

You will fall , you will lose

That can’t make you stop

Gather all the courage

Don’t let you inspiration drop

In the beginning, you will find it difficult. You will not get the desired results  but that doesn’t mean you lose you hope and stop doing this practice . This is the only way to find true happiness. The reason to be happy should lie within you. Why the outside world control your thoughts, your happiness. Be courageous. Discover  that true happiness which will ignite the engine of your life. Fill this new fuel to enjoy the journey of your life.

Ms Arora

How do you refuel the engine of your life?

I will be happy to discover the new ways to stay positive in life.

India at Commonwealth Games 2018 and 2010

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India has been doing well in the Sports for last few years at International level. Who can forget the wonderful memories of Commonweath Games held in India. Now is the time to see the rocking performances of our athletes in the Commomwealth Games 2018 in Australia.

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This time the Commonweath Games are being held at Gold Coast , Australia from 4 April to 15 April. There was a tough competition between Hambantota (Sri Lanka ) and Gold Coast City( Australia ) but the Gold Coast City won by getting 43 votes compared to 27 for Hambantota.

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Opening Ceremony of CWG 2018

There was a grand Opening Ceremony held at Carrara Stadium, officially opened by Charles, Prince of Whales. There are around 71 nations  participating  in 275 events. P.V. Sindhu was the flag bearer for India in the opening ceremony.

Indian team in CWG 2018

Indian team in CWG 2018

Performance of India in CWG 2018

Since we have entered in the last phase of the events , let’s see India’s performance so far: India has won  total 29 medals which include 14 Gold, 6 Silver and 9 bronze medal till date. The maximum medals are won in Shooting i.e. 12 followed by Weightlifting with 9 medals.

The performance of women needs an appreciation as they have won 7 gold medals with the total of 13 out of 29 medals.Men have done well by getting 15 medals .

Few of the names to be mentioned here are Sushil Kumar  in Men’s Freestyle 74 kg wrestling and Rahul Aware in 57kg . In Shooting , Shreyasi Singh , Heena Sidhu , Jitu rani,Poonam Yadav are few to mention here.

Future Events:

Indian hockey played in Commonwealth games

Winning Moments for Indian hockey team

As hockey is our national game , we must look forward to get some medals. Women’s hockey team has played well but lost the chance to win bronze medal. Men’s hockey team has entered in the Semifinals. They have to face New Zealand  in Semi finals.

Let’s pray for them to come out as a winner.

Comparison between 2010 and 2018 Commonwealth games

It is difficult to compare the performance in both the Commonwealth games because the confidence goes to the next level when the host is your country. The crowd around you is so motivating , hence  you get bound to show your best. You put all your efforts to bring laurels to your country.

It was the first time in the history of Commonwealth Games India won 38 golds and more than 101 medals in 2010. It is not difficult to achieve the same rather more than that but we have to think how we take this Games.

Why not this time ?

Unfortunately, in India sports have never been given due importance . We want our kids to become doctors , engineers but not sports person. The life of a sportsmanis considered very hard and full of struggles.

People like you and me have to encourage our children to play games whole heartedly. Government has to play a major role in this . Many names which are shinning  today at this event will be lost in the coming years. Few lucky ones will survive for few months and then, they will become the history.

Role of media can also not be denied as they can run all the non sense news throughout the day as a Breaking news while the positive news are ignored as they can’t increase their TRP.

There is time to think above all these things and take a strong move towards building a nation which is much more capable of  doing this.

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Give some recognition to all those who are winning medals for the country so that feel proud to share their story with coming generation. We  are a country which has talent in every nook and corner hidden under the layers of soil.

Gear up to remove those layers of soil to bring that talent to the world.

Jai Hind , Jai Bharat 

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Friday feature #4

Hello Guys !

I  know you must  be eagerly waiting for the next FRIDAY FEATURE  – A time to know about a new blogger friend.

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First of all I must apologise for putting up the post bit late. The reason being , I am participating in a blogging contest which require lot of attention.

This extra time gave a chance to explore more bloggers and make new friends.  During this time I came across many blogs and selected this one to feature here.

Congratulations…!!!

Live and Sparkle💖💖

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Blog Name –    Live and sparkle

Blogger’s Name  –   Judith

About her blog :

The aim of her blog is to share positivity and inspire someone out there.   She  loves writing her experiences and figured out it will be nice to share with others.

About her :

She is passionate about offering tips to help others improve their each day. Her goal for Live and Sparkle is to create an  inspiring online community that help people build their self-esteem and confidence.

My visit to his blog :

I enjoyed reading many of her posts. I particularly found most of the titles of the posts are attractive. She also write about blogging tips and ways to grow blog traffic too.Her posts are full of motivation and  guide us to make our life more comfortable and easy.

I am sure you will enjoy your visit to her blog .

Congratulations!!! Dear Judith

Proudly announce on your blog that you are now an important part of friday feature bloggers team. 

Keep writing and motivating others. God is always with you for this noble cause. Keep sharing and caring…!!!

A big thank to you all who participated and supporting me in this journey .

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