This blog post is for all those who want to make their life worthwhile.
There is question that strikes everyone’s mind when they sit alone – What is life ??? Some think that life is a challenge, for few it is a gift of God. To me , Life is what you make it .
It is in your hand how you shape it. Your tomorrow essentially depends on what you do today. Whether it is winning a bride or battle , fame or fortune , power or position, wealth or worldly goods, success in life depends on proper planning and execution of the plan.
Sometimes it comes to mind what turns and ordinary into extraordinary . May be it is the extra we put into it. Just like champion who puts all he has into his every punch. Thus, the best way to rise above the crowd is to the ordinary with extraordinary enthusiasm.
Put your the wheel on your shoulder and start working hard. Do not waver , do not hesitate. Do not doubt about your abilities, but keep going and going. Carry your attitude in your life in righteous way.
Do not forget, there is no short cut to success and distinction. It is a sweat of your brow , you will earn your bread. You have to talk and look like a winner. Have faith. Nothing is impossible for him that believth.
Take heart , be bold and open a new chapter of your life. Dedicate your energies , imagination , intellect, resources and time towards the realisation of your chosen and worthy goal. One step at a time and that well placed will guarantee your victory.
So ,open your hands to explore the world of opportunities and mould the life the way you want it to be…!!!
Best wishes to all all my readers for the best of their lives !!!
(I found this article written in one of my old notebook in year 2002 and thought to share it with you )
Carrying the right attitude can have a magical impact on your life. It is only the God who knows what is written on the next page of your life. It comes in front of you once it is written. You have no eraser to erase nor you can cut and rewrite. So prepared to confront every situation that comes in your life.
As the William Shakespeare says
There is nothing either good for bad but thinking made it so. It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.
We are in a world where people criticise more than appreciate. They try to find faults in each and every task you do. They laugh when you fall and they jealous when you grow. Many a times you fall just before the finishing line. That is when they celebrate. You feel broken, tired….as if the pieces of glass shattered on the floor.
So what is in our hands ????
Attitude ! Your attitude towards these problems is your strength. It can not only the save you from the unwanted situations but brings you out from the deep troubles. Positive attitude may not solve the problem but it can make a way to do so.
Right attitude at right time brings out the stronger shade of your personality.
It becomes easy for you to put forward your thoughts as you enforce the other person to listen to you. The way you speak, the words you use and your tone represent your attitude.
Attitude plays an important role at your work place too.
Work becomes easier if you have a positive attitude towards your profession. Ask yourself if you are enjoying the work you are doing ? Are you striving towards the goals of your company ? Is your profession or salary is making your personal life better ? Answers to these few questions will decide the attitude towards your job or profession.
“Whatever happens, just keep smiling and lose yourself in Love” says Rumi.
Smile on your face can put the people into a big trouble specially when they have tried to hurt you . That will get confused about their actions. Such an attitude will keep you at peace , without being affected. This smile will act as a shield.
“Style is a reflection of your attitude and your personality” says Shawn Ashmore.
The attitude comes from not what you wear but how you carry yourself and present yourself in front of other. Swami Vivekananda’s iconic speech in Chicago is still in our ears. His words will always inspire the youth. He didn’t bother what he was wearing as it was different from what those people used to wear. His attitude came out rightly through his words and his personality.
“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it” says Bruce Lee.
Your attitude is what you own. You need not to look around and see how people are looking or solving the problems in their life. Wear your own attitude. You need not to borrow from others. Your life is your own. So be the master of your life. Walk with the right attitude and see how it works for you. You have to live for yourself , not for society.
Remember what Zig Ziglar, the American author and motivational speaker said:
“It is your attitude, not your aptitude, that determines your altitude.”
There is lot to learn from this motivational speaker who always carried a positive attitude throughout the hurdles he faced in his life. His right attitude towards the life in the end gave him a success. He transformed his failures , loses and falls into the stairs to reach at the top. Failures are stepping stones to success
Such real life stories always motivates us. Another example is Dr Seuss who was rejected many a times. He turned the harsh voices of engine into words inthe ship. Nobody believed in his creative way of writing. Today he is the favourite among the children.
Are we carrying the right attitude in our life ?? Has ever the changing the attitude towards a problem changed the whole scenario??? Think about that moment !!
What do you think ? Share your views and comments.
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What we do today will the the past next moment. It is our decision what we want to do today and how to react in a particular situation. Keep in mind , it is we who make the memories for tomorrow. Decide today, what kind of memories you want to enjoy in your future !
It was a hot sunny day but that was no reason for me to not attend that meeting. I booked my cab as usual and put all important papers in my bag. My phone beeped once. It was my message tone hence I understood that the cab has arrived. I could see a car standing on my gate.
I hurriedly entered into and sat on the seat. I could feel the nice smell of perfume in the car. . I could see the young , smart guy sitting on the driving seat, nicely dressed up. He confirmed the destination from me. As he got the confirmation, he pressed his foot which was on the race immediately.
After few minutes,he got a call from someone. He was giving some kind of suggestion. The way he was explaining the things , gave a hint that he was well educated and had good knowledge of his subject. Out of curiosity I started the conversation with him.
“Since how long you driving cab ?” “Last month only ! Any problem mam ?”
May be he thought he was driving rough.
“No no…. ! ” perfectly fine. “Are you from here only ?” “No mam , I am from near by village ”
A silence persist for sometime and his voice broke that silence as if he had lot in his mind which he wanted to share .
“Actually Mam, my father has very good business there in village. We are having our own shop. The best is ours is the best shop to buy footwear and the only shop in the village.”
“Uhh! Great ! Then why did you not helped your father in the business ” I was little afraid too as I had no right to ask something personal .
He made an eye constant through the mirror on the top and started
“Actually, Mam I don’t like to sit on the shop throughout the day. Being a single boy in the family my father wanted me to join bussiness , not a job in far away city. Moreover , for me , sitting with him all day long and listening to his talks is very difficult for me. So I decided to drive for Uber. Atleast I Can get a chance to move around the city and not to be answerable to all his questions. “
“Are you happy with this job ? I mean there must be lot of profit in your business as you are telling me ? Isn’t?” I smiled
He laughed ” May be ! But I am enjoying this too at this moment. May be later I think about it.”
He was comfortably replying me so , I asked one more immediately.
“What is qualification ? as I really wanted to know.
“I have done engineering. “
His answer left me in the deep waters of thoughts. I couldn’t relate how can a boy who has done engineering be a cab driver. The parents who had spent the money on the education of their child are now not letting him to do the job as per his qualification? Is running a family business is wrong ? Or the young generation want to run away from the families ? May be he wanted to explore the city life ? I am still not been able to find the right decision . This ride of life will remain with me as an mystery of young life.
What do you think could be the reason for his this decision? In your opinion why this young man would have this decision? Are you agree ?
There are some moments of life which everyone wants to live once more in his or her life.
Those moments bring joy , happiness and the adrenaline starts rushing in our body. Practically it is not possible yet , in our sub conscious mind those days of our life remain fresh and alive.
The moment you close your eyes , you can feel them , relive them , feel them….ahhhh ! Those beautiful days.
It is true , once the past moments are gone , means gone and will never come back but we can cherish them whenever we want to.
Past can never be our present but it can fill our present with the sweet fragrance coming out from the garden of memories .
Has it ever happened with you ? Have you ever thought to relive any moment of your life ?
Given a chance what would be your choice ???
You want to relive your childhood having no worries. Playing with other kids without knowing about day or night ? Or the day you met with your first crush ? Your day with your family when you went out or when your parents gave you a surprise on your birthday ? Bunking the class first time or putting a chewing gum on your teacher’s chair ? When you experienced parenthood or when you hear your name from your child ? First day in school ? First job ??? Your first movie??
That past is good enough to bring a smile on my face. Isn’t it ? What do you say ???
Sorry ! I didn’t hear. Can you just stop by and share. May be someone want to hear that from you !
“No one cares about that !”
Hello ! I do . I want to relive those moments with you. Tell me, I want to hear. I am eagerly waiting.
Sometimes you have to ignore few things in your life to keep your life going on smoothly and make yourself happy. As a river can’t stop flowing taking all the big rocks and small pebbles into consideration while moving in its own way …..Same is the rule for life.
To each his sufferings: all are men,
Condemn’d alike to groan—
The tender for another’s pain,
Th’ unfeeling for his own.
Yet, ah! why should they know their fate,
Since sorrow never comes too late,
And happiness too swiftly flies?
Thought would destroy their Paradise.
No more;—where ignorance is bliss,
‘Tis folly to be wise.
Ignorance to me is sometimes bliss !!!
Yes , Ignorance is bliss sometimes.
Ignore those people who doesn’t believe in you , in your capabities and always doubt about your achievements.
They want to divert your attention from your work.
Ignore those who laugh on you because they are jealous of you.They want to be like you , but they can’t. They are frustrated as they have not achieved anything in their lives. Ignore whose say you to stop. They can’t walk a mile so they don’t want you to a take a step forward.
World always give importance to those who do not get tired even after they follow the same routine. Time doesn’t stop ! Sun never get tired !
Ignore everthing that can block your mindand make you incompetent to reach to your goal.
Recently I have found a very good video taking about the same. Do watch it !
Take what is important , consider what is helpful , believe what brings positivity and you will be on the top of the world , standing happily enjoying the fruit of your labour.
From there look down on all those whom you ignored once on your path. They are still there , with no sense of satisfaction. They are still there with no aim in life. They may not be seeing you because they are still busy laughing on others. But you can see them from the top because you know how to move forward in life.
Imagine if you would have considered them , you would too have been a part of that mob. Now feel proud on yourself as you took a right decision to ignore them….!!!
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About her : She has been a lifelong disability advocate, even before her daughter’s spinal cord injury. She managed group homes, ran a non-profit, and taught literacy to adults with disabilities at a state institution.An active volunteer, she served on the Ohio Swimming Board of Directors as Adapted Chairperson for swimmers with a disability.
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Sometimes you feel that the life has become so dull and boring. There is nothing around you that interests you more. You feel lonely and insecure. That is the best moment when you can see your innerself and start a new.
When the days seem gloomy
And you have lost your way
I am carrying a ray of hope
This all you have to say
The days seem too long and you get lost in your thoughts. Taking the decision becomes difficult. The muddled thinking creates a chaos in your life and you looking for a solution and answers to your questions . No , no one can give you the answers because the answers are hidden in your self . The spark , the hope and the answers are within you. Only and only you can understand these answers. Get connected with your thoughts and send positive vibes to your mind. Train your mind.
You will fall , you will lose
That can’t make you stop
Gather all the courage
Don’t let you inspiration drop
In the beginning, you will find it difficult. You will not get the desired results but that doesn’t mean you lose you hope and stop doing this practice . This is the only way to find true happiness. The reason to be happy should lie within you. Why the outside world control your thoughts, your happiness. Be courageous. Discover that true happiness which will ignite the engine of your life. Fill this new fuel to enjoy the journey of your life.
How do you refuel the engine of your life?
I will be happy to discover the new ways to stay positive in life.