Secret ways to create the Perfect time

What does the perfect time means? Does the perfect time really exist ? Or it is a state of mind which creates it ?

Every single second is a replica of the other second. These exactly the same 60 seconds make a minute which in turn make hours , days, weeks, months and so on. The control on this small identity of time is unaltered and beyond the control of our capacities. Every single second is Perfect by its own. Then why do we keep looking for that perfect time ? Is the moment in which you are living and witnessing is imperfect ? If you ask this question to yourself ,the reply you will get somewhere from the core of your heart is – NO.

It is we who are unable to understand the nature and power of time. It is we who are lacking in terms of efforts or attitude. Our inhibitions and insecurity is leading to give such results and keeping us away from making this moment perfect.

How can we make this moment perfect to start with? Why are we keep on waiting for that perfect moment ? Why are we doubtful about this present moment ?

We should not waste your time and energy for waiting the moment which is yet to come. Start with what you have just now with you. You are the creator of your future. You are the one who has a magic to make your dreams come true. Start making your perfect moments now. This is the perfect time to make your life what you have dreamt of.

How can you make this moment a Perfect moment ?

Every person has his own secrets to unwrap the success or happiness in his life. The formula which has worked for me may or may not work for you. There is no closed door to the better future , only the ways to open it may be different . The treasure is just under your feet. You have to start digging just now. Some may get it in few feet down the earth or others may have to go little deep. The later you start , the more time you have to wait.

I am listing here few ways to start with. Try it to make this moment the perfect moment.

  • Start believing in yourself

The very first step is to start believing in yourself and in your efforts. People may raise doubts about you and even your ideas. They may see you as worthless. Don’t get disheartened. Believe me , They are ignorants as they can’t see your mind and your planning.

  • Weave your thoughts

There are many thoughts and ideas which keep on popping up in your mind. Before these valuable strings in mind get entangled , write it down. At first these may appear bit confusing . Later you can sort out them one by one according to your goal.

  • Work upon the pathways

There are many different roads to reach at one destination. Study the map carefully to choose right path. It may possible that the road has still not built to your destination. No worries. Make a new one. It will not only be beneficial to you but for others too.

  • Read and research

Read some books. It can be a motivational book , a success story , a biography or a travelogue. Every book has a lesson for life and a way to solve the mystery of hidden truths. Research the topic online and offline both. Listen the people carefully. You can get a lots of ideas to make your that moment perfect.

  • Don’t be afraid of failure

I always believe that failure are the stepping stones to success. Do not be afraid to fail. Take a example of the famous Bollywood actor Amitabh Bacchan who once wanted to leave Bombay ( presently Mumbai ) thinking that this city is not meant for him. Look at he destiny, the same city made him a well known personality in the world. He has faced the failures many a times but did not stop.

  • Accept criticism

People will criticise you for your actions. Accept it as a part of your success story. The one who are criticising you today will be your admirers one day. Deeply go through those words and sentence. Analyse and interpret to see whether they are worth for. Keep your attitude with you.

  • Be ready with plan A, B or C

Make a plan A and start doing planning on a paper. Write its pros and cons. If it works well , good but if it isn’t ? Make sure you have plan in your hand. Never ever think to stop on the way. Keep on going till you achieve what you want to.

Start doing smart work with hardwork. A perfect combination of both will bring you closer to your perfect time quickly.

Life is what you make it. So , let’s make this moment a Perfect moment. Don’t wait for tomorrow as tomorrow never comes.

Aurora M

Advertisements

Surrender – A technique for freedom

Journey of life continues, positivity, happiness

Surrendering – a powerful asset !

In battle, surrender is giving up your resistance to an enemy, this is rarely ever a beneficial outcome , often synonymous with a loss and death. However, when looking at surrender to use in your internal world, it is a powerful asset.

Surrendering as a powerful asset and secret of happiness

For a very long time, I have felt very sad for a number of different reasons, and I have held on to that sadness. Even when everyone around me is very happy I’ve felt sad. This may be true for many of you reading this. Why? My guess is, that as a child and young person I was never allowed to be myself . I feared what other people would think of me if they truly experienced who I really was. I feared that I would be ostracised and criticised. And so I became sad.

My sadness is my resistance to being my self and essentially a happy self-expressed person. My surrendering to my sadness and allowing myself to feel happy and making it okay to feel happy has ultimately lead me to this discovery.

Just to sound a little cinematic, surrendering to my sadness and feeling, my feelings has released me from my prison of sadness to which I cling to and identify with so much. It has set me free.

What does surrender feel like? and how do you do it?

It is true surrender is a feeling, for me. It  started with the thought “It’s okay to let yourself feel happy”. I immediately felt a weight lifted off my shoulders and I felt lighter in my physical body. I had a somatic response with was directly correlated to my state of mind. This is perhaps the most obvious way to surrender. Just by thinking.

So, send the intention to allow for surrender in your life, just by thinking about surrender, if this is your desire. It is a law of the universe that you must experience this in your life.

With Love,

Madhur

————————💖💖💖💖———————-

A big thank you to my very special friend Madhur who has so much to share with the world. He has been a wonderful person who always spreads love , positivity and happiness around him. This is just a glimpse to his writing. I am looking to read more from his blog. Thanks for writing on blog and sharing your experiences and knowledge about creating happiness in oneself by the technique called surrendering. Do visit his blog to know more this blogger and show some love to his posts.

Keep writing and sharing 

Ms Arora 💕💕

If you want to write a post on my blog , Contact me through my contact page. Don’t forget to follow me on Twitter for my FRIDAY FEATURE SERIES.( see the pinned tweet) as I am looking for Friday feature #7

Think Bigger

Life quotes, think bigger.

A true fact of life

There are many situations in life when you have to think bigger above your personal gains and benefits. Such decisions give you a self satisfaction and help you to grow as a good human beings .

Via daily prompt : fact

No complications,Dear life !

#life #motivation #experience #quotes

Good bye Dear 2017…I will miss you😍

Good bye 2017 things i learnt in year 2017

Year 2017 is ready to fly away as we have entered in the last week of this year. The count down has begun.

My last week was quite busy and so is this week. I may not be able to post this week again as we have a family get together this week. So there will be lots of fun and masti ( enjoyment).

Just got sometime amd thought to review my 2017 and share it with you.

  •  I learnt health is wealth.It was a tough beginning and I was finding it difficult to manage with my health issues but it’s ending up with positivity all around. 
  • I learnt how to strengthen our bonding. It is really important to enjoy with friends and spend quality time  with family. We, together, when  share our happiness with each other and our bond gets stronger day by day.
  • I learnt how to create happiness around myself. Yes, happiness is with in us. Just send some positive thoughts to your brain and heart and enjoy the happiness.
  • I  learnt how to deal with negative situations but there is lot more to learn in this aspect. I feel  these affect our health a lot  , not only mentally but physically too.
  • I learnt that we meet many people. Everyone has something to give us. Some are there to give us support, some give you experience. Few are there to give to care and others are ready to extend their helping hands. A few are to give love .
  • I learnt that relationship doesn’t need always to be together. Even if we don’t meet , we can still have good friends to give us moral support.
  • And the best thing that I learnt in 2017 is blogging !!!! And I found so many wonderful people here. Believe me if I has changed my life and my thoughts.

Bye 2017 and the journey continues

Thanks DEAR 2017 for making me a better person. I will miss you because you have given such a wonderful  lessons of life that will help me to be ready for the various challenges of life.

Good bye…….

Before I finish my post lets share how was your year 2017 !!!
Why will you miss 2017  or why will you remember it ?

A message for Year  2017:

And the journey continues will remember  you Dear 2017 because I took my first step of blogging this year and got an awesome support from every corner of this world .

What is you message for Dear 2017 ?

Let the world know what is your message for Dear 2017.

DON’T WAIT AS IT IS VALID TILL 31 DEC, MIDNIGHT. AFTER THAT IT WILL NOT BE WITH US….SO HURRY UP. REMEMBER IT IS A LAST CHANCE  OPEN YOUR HEARTS…

💖💛💚💙💜💛💚💙💖

P.S. : looking forward to read your messages 😊😎

Image source: google and giphy

 Wow…!!! A beautiful gift by Dear 2017- My this post is Top blog post on Indiblogger 😁😁🤗


Top post on IndiBlogger, the biggest community of Indian Bloggers
      My first badge on Indiblogger.

THANK YOU DEAR 2017💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

Life and success

“Sometimes life demands your 150% ,So be prepared for it. But, Remember even 150% does not guarantee your success.

Success has its own  parameters and that too varies from person to person.

If 150% is less…be ready to give 200% Finally success will also understand your determination and your hard work. It will be with you as it has no reason to be away from you for long.”

Quote of the day -1

I would love to do the three-day quote challenge initiated by

https://mytrainofthoughtson.wordpress.com/2017/10/10/three-day-quote-challenge-day-one-2017/

Rules for the challenge:

• Thank the blogger who nominated you.

• Publish 3 quotes on 3 consecutive days on your blog. It can be your own, or from a book, song, movie, or from anyone who inspires you.

• Nominate 3 more bloggers to carry on this endeavor.

HERE IS THE QUOTE FOR TODAY

IMG_1505302987296-01.jpeg

I feel we should know the way to control our thoughts specially the negative ones as they can ruin our life at times…..

My nomination:

The one who is reading the post now😃

And don’t forget to visit my new page in the menu – WRITE TO INSPIRE