What is your love language?

Love languages, blogging, relationship

Well, this week I was finding bit difficult to choose the topic for writing the blog post. Finally I came up with an idea to write about LOVE,something which everyone is looking for in this world.

What is love ????

LOVE has always been the most difficult word to describe but yes, the best feeling which immediately changes your inner and outer environment. Nothing seems good without it. A world without love means an ocean without water. Not only human beings but all the the living creatures are  looking for it badly.

Do we express our love in a right way???

We have different ways to show are love for othets. Does the feeling you want to show are being correctly understood by othet person ? I doubt.

Sometimes, in our life a situation comes when we do our best to make our loved ones happy but the result comes out as a zero. Our attempt to make other person feel wanted and loved failed.We feel depressed and sad.

Why do we fail to understand the love expressed by others?

The answer to this question lies in the following examples.

● A wife cooks a special dish for the husband  on their anniversary. He tastes it and praises her but the wife is not happy??? Poor husband is not able to understand ! He has appreciated her efforts but she is reacting like this ???The reason being here that she was expecting a gift , may be a smaller one, on that particular day as her way to show love.(Gifts- a language of love for her)

Take one more example,

● Today is Janith’s mom’s birthday. She brings a beautiful bouquet and a dress of her choice to give her as a surprise. The mother is not happy????

The reason , she was not looking for the gift rather she wanted to spent some hours with her. ( A quality time – a language of love for her)

In both the cases, the language of love was different. The language of love for Janith was giving and receiving gift while for the mother was a quality time. Both were not able to understand the language of each other,both were not happy despite being putting efforts.

Same is the case in all the relationships. Most of the times we fail to understand the language of our partner, a friend, our children in our busy life. There is always a possibility that you language of love is different from the other person. You are expressing your love by giving gifts but the other person is expecting may be some quality time or some words of affirmations.

 Why should we know about different languages of love ???

You can make the other person feel eanted only if you know different languages of love .

Languages of love , blo,
FIVE LANGUAGES OF LOVE

According to Gary Chapman, there are five languages of love.

1. Words of appreciation or affirmation

2. Giving or receiving gifts

3.  Acts of service i.e. taking care

4. Quality time

5. Physical touch such as hugs 

Every person has his own language of love. You have to understand the language of other person to make him feel loved. It is like speaking the same language for each other. For this you have to discover his language by putting your language aside.

Sometimes, you may have felt that your wife is never been happy inspite the fact that you are going to market , bringing the groceries or getting the kids ready for the school ,Yet she complains you that you do not love her .It is because you feel loved when other person does this for you.

Your language of love is showing care for other. Not neccesarily ,it is a her language of love also. May be she feel loved when you spent some quality time with her or a small hug from you or a small flower or chocolate.

What is your language of love , journey of life continues

Discover the love languages of your loved ones.

We need to discover the language of each other. It is not only for married people but with kids too. If you are coming from a foreign tour and have brought  many gifts. You expect you child to be happy but she or he is not. May be he or she was expecting a tight hug ,not the gifts. Understand what the other person expect from you.

How can we make the other person feel loved??

By speaking their language of love .

In a nutshell, what is important to find the language of your loved loves so that you reciprocate the love in same manner and make the other person feel loved by putting your efforts in a right direction.

I am really thankful to  Gary Chapman    who has written such a wonderful book ( 5 languages of Love) that has helped me a lot to understand this concept of love and created a such a positive impact in my life.

Now you can answer to this question if somebody tell you – dear, you do not love me 😐

Tell that– I love you but my way if expressing love is different from you. Please understand .

If the person feels difficult to understand – Show this article and tell him or her to read😉😉

Feel free to share on WhatsApp or facebook or any other social media to make the world understand the languages of love.

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Love is lost somewhere

Love, poem

They were strangers
Became friends
Fell in love

Time flew away
With it’s wide open wings

Situations whirled
circumstances changed
And they became strangers
Once again
 
Never thought
Destiny will bring them together
They met and their wrinkled face
Smiled at each other

Now they are trying to revive
the same old friendship
As love is somewhere lost
In the struggles of life

Via daily prompt : wrinkle

friday feature #4 post will be published tomorrow

A shadow in my mind

Love , poem , quote , poetry

A shadow in my mind
Like ripples of water
Appears for a second
Next moment disappears

Never happened before
Strange but true
Is it with me only
Or it’s happening with him too?

Just a glimpse of his
And my heart was lost
I am melting like an snow
In the warmth of his  thought

I can’t see the sky above
As his aura made me blind
And the longing for him
Is difficult for me to hide

Is it love…..????

Via Daily prompt: Above

Pic credit: Google; edited by – Msarora

Have a date with my Coffee Love

 

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Life is full of ups and downs and we keep on looking around for positivity , inspiration , happiness and reasons to celebrate.

We feel sad when no one is around to cheer us up. It’s then you need to ignite your passion with the company of your favourite food and drink. Believe me , it works and you start enjoying your own company.

Whenever I feel depressed ,unmotivated and my energy levels go down , there is something which rejuvenates me and makes me feel better. It not only gives a company but brings my innerself out.

That is A Date –

 A date with my love, my Coffee.

Coffee, super blogger challenge

I love to have a coffee in any form – hot or cold. If I get a company, its good, if not , I alone can enjoy my cup of coffee.
It is a big stress buster for me. Even the recent studies have proved that drinking a few cups of coffee is  good for our health.

History of  Coffee

Do you  know who discovered coffee and how did it reach to us ? The answer is  really interesting . It was not discovered by a well know historian or scientists or any researcher. It was discovered by a shepherd. Watch this video showing it’s origin and a brief history of coffee.

Good News for the coffee lovers

Recent studies have shown that if we drink coffee in limit and without sugar and without milk or with less milk, it boosts the health of our heart and also helps in preventing lung cancer , Parkinson disease and diabetes-2 also.

Coffee-A best friend for some

Many times I go to cafe to order coffee and have seen many people standing in a cue and thinking of their order of coffee. I think there is only a few number of people who know the real difference between types of coffee though they are well conversant with their names like Expresso , cappuccino , latte or Mocha. These are only few names to mention.

Types of Coffee in the World

There are more than 20 kinds to coffee in the world. There are many kinds of coffee beans grown but most of the coffees are prepared from mainly two kinds of coffee beans- Coffee Arabica and Coffee Robusta. Coffee Robusta is more bitter and stronger in taste. Here are the few names of the different types of coffee drinking by the people in the various parts of the World.

  • Expresso
  • Cappuccino
  • Mocha
  • Latte
  • Flat Milk
  • Macchiato
  • Americano
  • Chai Latte
  • Egg Coffee
  • Doppio
  • Mazagran
  • Borgia
  • Frappé
  • Spiced Latte( My latest love) and list goes on.

Know Your Love :

  • Expresso :  If you are in love with Expresso, then it has 7g of  ground coffee in the filter and has brewed for 20 mins to make it 30 ml. You can have a double dose of your love with 14 grams to make it 60- 75 ml.
  • Cappuccino :  It has expresso coffee , milk and  foamed milk in same proportion i.e. 60ml in same order.
  • Latte : It has more of milk in quantity compared to the quantity of the coffee, double or more than that.Thus , it tastes less of coffee compared to Cappuccino.
  • Mocha : It gives you a flavour of expresso coffee with hot chocolate, topped with whipped cream. I am sure you can resist falling in love with it.
  • Macchiato : You can find it in Italy as they have invented it. It has coffee with only foamed milk on the top. In Kosavo, you will find it with cream on the top.
  • Flat Milk  : It has expresso coffee with microfoam milk( steamed milk with some bubbles) Unlike Cappuccino which has macro foam on the top.
  • Chai latte : As the name suggest, expresso coffee with a flavour of masala tea.
  • Mazagran :An expresso without milk with a flavour of lemon juice. Yes ! A coffee with lemon juice with a little of sugar and ice cubes. A must try.
  • Spiced Latte : Now , time to describe my latest Love❤❤. It has Expresso and milk with flavours of spices like cinnamon and nutmeg.

So , next time you order your favourite Coffee , feel the taste of and enjoy the real flavour of it or find your new love like me. I am also eager to share my new love. Till then , fix a date with coffee at your favourite place , may be  at a Coffee Shop, Workplace or everyone’s favourite- Home Sweet Home like me.

Caution : Coffee contains caffeine. Excessive intake may be injurious to your health . Consume it at your own risk.

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Which is your favourite coffee???

I am talking to the wind

Poem,love, wind ,feelingsSlowly it passes around me
Touching my cheeks
I could feel a kind of satisfaction
That someone is near by me

I don’t utter a word
Still it listens to me
Fills my heart with joy
Taking away all my worries

I could feel the love
That it carries alongwith
When it passed by
those couple so sweet

I look up the sky
And see clouds passing by
I wish , I could send message
To my love living far away

Not even for a minute
I blink my eyes
As I am in love with the dream
Deep within me which lies

I am happy and smiling
But missing your presence
Waiting for you to come back
Counting these long lonely days

Pic credit : Google

Via Daily prompt:blink

Feel free to share if liked ! Love is meant to spread !

Dark Angelic eyes

Poem, poetry, dark ,angelic .eyes

Not a word was used

In the conversation

Yet they understood

Because he made a reservation

With her dark angelic eyes

 

(Via Daily prompt:reservation)

Come… fall in love💙❤💙

Fall in love , love quotes

Come
Fall in love
Falling in love is easy
But difficult to maintain
So let your love simmer
On the slow heat of time
Till it gets ready
To make your life shine
Add some flavour of your choice
Make it little spicy or a little sweet
‘Cause love is all we need….❤❤

Via Daily prompt : simmer