Secret ways to create the Perfect time

What does the perfect time means? Does the perfect time really exist ? Or it is a state of mind which creates it ?

Every single second is a replica of the other second. These exactly the same 60 seconds make a minute which in turn make hours , days, weeks, months and so on. The control on this small identity of time is unaltered and beyond the control of our capacities. Every single second is Perfect by its own. Then why do we keep looking for that perfect time ? Is the moment in which you are living and witnessing is imperfect ? If you ask this question to yourself ,the reply you will get somewhere from the core of your heart is – NO.

It is we who are unable to understand the nature and power of time. It is we who are lacking in terms of efforts or attitude. Our inhibitions and insecurity is leading to give such results and keeping us away from making this moment perfect.

How can we make this moment perfect to start with? Why are we keep on waiting for that perfect moment ? Why are we doubtful about this present moment ?

We should not waste your time and energy for waiting the moment which is yet to come. Start with what you have just now with you. You are the creator of your future. You are the one who has a magic to make your dreams come true. Start making your perfect moments now. This is the perfect time to make your life what you have dreamt of.

How can you make this moment a Perfect moment ?

Every person has his own secrets to unwrap the success or happiness in his life. The formula which has worked for me may or may not work for you. There is no closed door to the better future , only the ways to open it may be different . The treasure is just under your feet. You have to start digging just now. Some may get it in few feet down the earth or others may have to go little deep. The later you start , the more time you have to wait.

I am listing here few ways to start with. Try it to make this moment the perfect moment.

  • Start believing in yourself

The very first step is to start believing in yourself and in your efforts. People may raise doubts about you and even your ideas. They may see you as worthless. Don’t get disheartened. Believe me , They are ignorants as they can’t see your mind and your planning.

  • Weave your thoughts

There are many thoughts and ideas which keep on popping up in your mind. Before these valuable strings in mind get entangled , write it down. At first these may appear bit confusing . Later you can sort out them one by one according to your goal.

  • Work upon the pathways

There are many different roads to reach at one destination. Study the map carefully to choose right path. It may possible that the road has still not built to your destination. No worries. Make a new one. It will not only be beneficial to you but for others too.

  • Read and research

Read some books. It can be a motivational book , a success story , a biography or a travelogue. Every book has a lesson for life and a way to solve the mystery of hidden truths. Research the topic online and offline both. Listen the people carefully. You can get a lots of ideas to make your that moment perfect.

  • Don’t be afraid of failure

I always believe that failure are the stepping stones to success. Do not be afraid to fail. Take a example of the famous Bollywood actor Amitabh Bacchan who once wanted to leave Bombay ( presently Mumbai ) thinking that this city is not meant for him. Look at he destiny, the same city made him a well known personality in the world. He has faced the failures many a times but did not stop.

  • Accept criticism

People will criticise you for your actions. Accept it as a part of your success story. The one who are criticising you today will be your admirers one day. Deeply go through those words and sentence. Analyse and interpret to see whether they are worth for. Keep your attitude with you.

  • Be ready with plan A, B or C

Make a plan A and start doing planning on a paper. Write its pros and cons. If it works well , good but if it isn’t ? Make sure you have plan in your hand. Never ever think to stop on the way. Keep on going till you achieve what you want to.

Start doing smart work with hardwork. A perfect combination of both will bring you closer to your perfect time quickly.

Life is what you make it. So , let’s make this moment a Perfect moment. Don’t wait for tomorrow as tomorrow never comes.

Aurora M

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Appreciation is all your child need

Education, motivation , appreciation , parenting

Who does not want appreciation ?

Irrespective of age or gender,at home or at workplace,we always look for an appreciation by the ones whom we are connected in any way. If we as an adult feel that our work should be appreciated or acknowledged , think about your little monsters who all the time trying New things , discover new challenges for themselves. They go beyond their limits to win . As a part of growth and development, they need to be appreciated.

Few words of appreciation can do magic for your child. There are various psychological reasons for why every child need to be appreciated

  • It builds confidence.
  • It motivates the child.
  • It brings the self satisfaction.
  • It strengthens the bond between you and your child.
  • It develops the feeling of gratitude
  • It develops the sense of accomplishment .

There are many ways to appreciate your child. You can do it by a pat or by giving hug and by words. Your one word of appreciation can change the life of your child. So do not hold back and act now. There are number of ways you can make your child very special. Here are 100 phrases you can use in everyday life for child to get acknowledged and appreciate.

Being a parent it is important to use such phrases. The more you appreciate, the more they will become responsible for their actions.

How do you appreciate your child as a father or mother. Share your experience in comment section.

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What’s your attitude today ?

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What is your attitude today ?

Towards your life ? Or towards your friend who has tried to make you feel useless or the one who has made lots of promises but left you midway for struggle? (Comment below)

Remember

Your attitude is yours ! Carry it everyday! You can’t afford to miss it ! Try to find happiness.. Believe me , it is inside you…around you .

Aurora M

Your attitude matters in your life

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Yes! Attitude matters a lot.

Carrying the right attitude can have a magical impact on your life. It is only the God who knows what is written on the next page of your life. It comes in front of you once it is written. You have no eraser to erase nor you can cut and rewrite. So prepared to confront every situation that comes in your life.

As the William Shakespeare says

There is nothing either good for bad  but thinking made it so. It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.

We are in a world where people criticise more than appreciate. They try to find faults in each and every task you do. They laugh when you fall and they jealous when you grow. Many a times you fall just before the finishing line. That is when they celebrate. You feel broken, tired….as if the pieces of glass shattered on the floor.

So what is in our hands ????

Attitude ! Your attitude towards these problems is your strength. It can not only the save you from the unwanted situations but brings you out from the deep troubles. Positive attitude may not solve the problem but it can make a way to do so.

Right attitude at right time brings out the stronger shade of your personality.

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It becomes easy for you to put forward your thoughts as you enforce the other person to listen to you. The way you speak, the words you use and your tone represent your attitude.

Attitude plays an important role at your work place too.

Work becomes easier if you have a positive attitude towards your profession. Ask yourself if you are enjoying the work you are doing ? Are you striving towards the goals of your company ? Is your profession or salary is making your personal life better ? Answers to these few questions will decide the attitude towards your job or profession.

“Whatever happens, just keep smiling and lose yourself in Love” says Rumi.

Smile on your face can put the people into a big trouble specially when they have tried to hurt you . That will get confused about their actions. Such an attitude will keep you at peace , without being affected. This smile will act as a shield.

“Style is a reflection of your attitude and your personality” says Shawn Ashmore.


The attitude comes from not what you wear but how you carry yourself and present yourself in front of other. Swami Vivekananda’s iconic speech in Chicago is still in our ears. His words will always inspire the youth. He didn’t bother what he was wearing as it was different from what those people used to wear. His attitude came out rightly through his words and his personality.

“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it” says Bruce Lee.

Your attitude is what you own. You need not to look around and see how people are looking or solving the problems in their life.  Wear your own attitude. You need not to borrow from others. Your life is your own. So be the master of your life. Walk with the right attitude and see how it works for you. You have to live for yourself , not for society.

Remember what Zig Ziglar, the American author and motivational speaker said:

“It is your attitude, not your aptitude, that determines your altitude.”

There is lot to learn from this motivational speaker who always carried a positive attitude throughout the hurdles he faced in his life. His right attitude towards the life in the end gave him a success. He transformed his failures , loses and falls into the stairs to reach at the top. Failures are stepping stones to success

Such real life stories always motivates us. Another example is Dr Seuss who was rejected many a times. He turned the harsh voices of engine into words inthe ship. Nobody believed in his creative way of writing. Today he is the favourite among the children.

Are we carrying the right attitude in our life ?? Has ever the changing the attitude towards a problem changed the whole scenario??? Think about that moment !!

What do you think ? Share your views and comments.

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Make memories for tomorrow

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What we do today will the the past next moment. It is our decision what we want to do today and how to react in a particular situation. Keep in mind , it is we who make the memories for tomorrow. Decide today, what kind of memories you want to enjoy in your future ! 

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New day , New opportunities

Don’t think much about what has happened today. Just take an experience and move forward as new day is waiting for you with new opportunities.

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Effective ways to achieve goals in life

Can you make a house in a day ? Offcourse not ! It starts with a one small brick and adding more one by one on each other and joining them together with cement . This makes a strong wall. The process continue for the other wall and the next .  It takes time. So is the process to achieve the goals in life.

Effective Way To achieve goal in life

There is no short cut to achieve a big goal. Be persistent, stay foccused and do hardwork are the few well knowm mantras of success. There is no one in the world who can say that he has become succeessful or achieved something big in life without doing any hardwork. Even if someone says do not believe in. May be he or she does not want to share it with you.
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I have seen many people do not disclose their struggles as they do not to remember that hard time or they are afraid the others will use the same stratergy and will come up !

Follow these few mantras to achieve  your goal and become successful:

Goals , effective ways to achieve goals

Stay focussed :

There should be only one thing in your mind that is your GOAL since morning till night.Your mind should always be thinking about it. People may tease you but do not pay heed to them. Just keep going !

Stay Calm:

Effective way to achieve goals

There may be adverse or challenging situation but  you have to stay calm. Do not be panic in any case. Your mind can only work properly when when you are at peace. Do meditation or exercise. Start your day well

Be persistent :

Keep on adding a little effort everyday.  No matter how small it is. Do not think to do a lot once and then sit and relax. Do you remember the story of The Hare and The Tortoise ! Maintain the flow.

Do Planning:

Make a real life plan keeping your daily responsibities in your mind. It will work in a better way for you . A plan which does not include ground realities fails .

Accept Failures:

Effective Way To achieve goal

Be ready to accept failures and learn from them. This is what we call an experience later. Learn from your mistakes and next time, do the corrections and perform in a better way.

Be a learner:

Never think that you know each and every thing. There is always a scope for learning. Learn from nature , your collegeaus , your friends no matter they are younger or elder to you. Listen their experiences.

Maintain healthy competition:

The most important thing is to maintain healthy competition with other. Never be jealous or sway away with pride. Have a competition with yourself. False pride or negative competition kills the creativity , so avoid them !

Above all….

Is required

HARDWORK

Nothing in life can be achieved without hardwork. It is the best key to unlock the lock of success and achieve the goal . Come out from your comfort zone.

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Even after putting all the efforts you do not succeed or achieve your goal. STAY POSITIVE. Start again….. You will get what you want ! I would like to quote the dialogue from the movie Om Shanti Om ( A hollywood movie) where Shahrukh khan says :

Kehte hain ki …… Agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaaho to puri kayanat usey tumse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai.

 It is said that …… if you want something from heart, then the whole process and every power in the world takes it into trying to match you.

Do you agree with me ? Do share your your success mantra in comment section .

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Good luck to all  who are trying to achieve something big in life including me !!!!

Ms Arora💕💕

This day is your day

Quote, quote of the day , motiva

This day is your day. Make it best and leave the rest …..!!!!

How are you going to make your day best ??? 

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Start your day with positive thoughts to stay happy

Life quotes, journey of life continues

Everyday is a new day. When we get up in the morning, we start a fresh . That moment is the moment on which our whole day depends. Never start your day with something negative or with worries. Always start your day with some positive thoughts. If you will start your day with a positive thought and as a fresh new day , definitely your day will go smooth , with no worries at all . Even if you would have to face any adverse situation ,you will find yourself capable of bringing it under your control.

Coming out from the bed or leaving the comfort zone is difficult or a challenge for some( usually switch off the alarm and wait for five minutes to get up and that 5 mins become 1 hour at times) but who has succeeded in his life being in his own comfortable zone ? Taking up a new challenge is life. There are different ways to motivate yourself in the morning. 

Your first thought decides how your day would be , hence, start your day with what you love to do. What can be better than motivating yourself by recognising your strengths and God given gift of life.

Get up in the morning and say thanks to God for giving you one more day to enjoy life. Look at your hands and see how beautiful they are ! With these hands you can achieve whatever you want ! You can say this beautiful Shaloka in Sanskrit too which is perfect way to start your day.

“The Force” is in your hands – कराग्रे वसते लक्ष्मीः

lakShmI in the finger tips, saraswatI on the palm |
shaktI is situated in the wrist, it is auspicious to see the hands ||

कराग्रे वसते लक्ष्मीः, करमध्ये सरस्वती ।
करमूले स्थिता गौरी, मंगलं करदर्शनम् ॥

karAgre vasate lakShmIH, kara-madhye saraswatI |
kara-moole sthitA gaurI, mangalaM kara-darshanam ||

You can hang or keep a picture of someone you admire the most as this will keep you going no matter what the situation is throughout the day. Wish your parents if you are living with them. Look out for the greenery , the nature , your pet with a smile on your face. 

Good morning, journey of life continues

Just doing this much will fill you with lots of happiness and you will feel blessed.

Don’t let others define you , create your own definition.  If you are not happy with this definition , create a new ! Be the master of your life ! Feel like a bird, light……! Inspire youself….! Motivate yourself……! This is your new day…..!

SAY GOOD MORNING TO YOURSELF….!

GOOD MORNING MS ARORA!!!
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How do you motivate yourself in the morning??? How do you start your day ? Share your views and ideas.

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A new start

Life quotes, quote , how to start a new

FRIDAY MOTIVATION

Let’s start a new with a new passion in life and find the happiness. Live life king size !!!!

Ms Arora 💕💕💕

(Read the full poem here to get inspiration and motivation )