Being Social vs Social Media

Social Media Addiction, journey of life continues, lifequotes

Do you feel guilty being more more busy with Social media compared to being social. Give a thought about it.

Ms Arora 💕💕

Via Daily prompt: Guilty

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Live for Yourself,Not for Society

Why do we need society ?

Live for yourself, not for Society, Why should we not always follow society

Human beings are social animals and their survival is not possible without it.We all are dependent on each other for many small and big needs. It is a web of many chains which are interlinked at many places. Missing a one chain can disturb the whole web or can create chaos.

How do society help us ?

We get up in the morning and look for newspaper. Think about the whole process of making of paper i.e. making of paper from trees , its processing , getting the news from all over the world, editing , printing and the people involved in all these work. Missing one link from and you can’t enjoy reading it with your cup of tea or coffee in the morning.

Is society is my responsibility ?

There are so many activities , works, assignments where we are depend on other people for the completion of our task. We all depend upon society and people who comprises society. Hence ,it is our resposibity to take care of our society in which we are living and the people who comprising the society.

Am I supposed to follow all the norms of society ?

The answer varies from person to person and society to society.  Since we are living in a society and it is our resposibility, doesn’t mean that you have to follow all the rules of society. As an individual you have a right to live the kind of life you want to live.

Sometimes social pressure make you feel suffocated and depressed. That time it is really neccessary to hear the voice of your heart. Rules are good till they give positive output and not kill your individuality.

Life quotes, live for yourself and not society

Live for yourself, not for society

Do what you want to do , live the way you want to live, you don’t need anyone’s permission. Live your life at your norms. Break the rules. The only thing you have to remember that your decision should not affect others life adversely

  • Look for your comfort : Just because my friend’s children are studying in a reputed school of the town doesn’t mean you are also forced to get your children admmitted in that same school. Look the needs of your kids and your comfort in all aspects.
  • Make your own choices  : Don’t worry about what people will say. Make your own choices in life. You do not want to get married – fine ! You want get married at 50 – Okay! Finally it is your decision and you are happy with your decision.
  • Wear what makes you happy : Give a damn look to those who comment on what you are wearing.  They are not supposed to decide for you. Wear what make you comfortable and confident .
  • Proudly show your identity : Wheither you are black or white, transgender or gay or person with special need , there is  no harm showing your true identity. Show what you are and society has to accept you as you are.
  • Live the way you want to live : You want to live in a small house or a big house , alone , in joint family or in a nuclear family , with kids or far away in countryside – live the way you want to live.
  • Eat what you want to eat – On one has a right to put restrictions on your liking. Do not stop yourself enjoying the food since you belong to a particular kind of community or people around you don’t like.

Note: This article has been written as a part of SuperBloggerChallenge2018 conducted by Healthwealthbridge.comFashionablefoodz.comAllaboutthewoman.com and should not be repurposed, republished or used otherwise. The content herein is owned by the blogger. SuperBloggerChallenge2018 is not responsible for any kind of infringement caused.

P. S. You may agree or may not agree with my views , It hardly matters as we all are different individuals and so our thoughts. I  respect your thoughts and your decisions as a member of the society .

Looking forward to read your introspection .

Ms Arora 

Different Personalities around us in the society

Human beings are social animals,that, they can’t survive without society. The society comprises people around us. Since morning till night, from Monday to Sunday, years after years we meet lot of people.

The people around me and you are almost similar in many charactersitics or we can say that they have same kind of personality.

PERSONALITY

Personality

According to the dictionary , 

It is a combination of characterstics or qualities that form individual’s distinctive character.

Some of these traits are inherited and some are accquired through the kind of enviornment they are living in.Personality defines what kind of person you are.

INFUENCE OF DIFFERENT PERSONALITIES ON US

You can’t deny the fact that people around us have lot of impact on us as it is rightly said

A PERSON IS KNOWN BY THE COMPANY OF PEOPLE HE IS SURROUNDED BY.

The most difficult things can be achieved easily if you are surrounded with people having positive attitude. This become worse to worst if you can’t understand the basic nature or personality of a person you are living with.

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DIFFERENT TYPES OF PERSONALITIES AROUND US

let’s see the faces of some personalities who keep revolving around most of us. Some of you may have encountered whilefew of these or may meet soon in future.

EASY GOING PEOPLE :

Personality

Take it easy

These are the people whose personality does not change as per situation. They react towards all the situation in a same manner always. Their basic traits remain same and are emotionally strong. They don’t take things to the heart and remain calm. Take it easy ,dear is their attitude towards life.

OPPORTUNISTS :

Opportunitist personalities

These are the people who always seek oppourtunity in each and every situation. They have an ability to change the things according to their need. They know how to crack the situation for their benefit. You may or may not be knowing what they are planning for you .

EASILY INFUENCED :

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This category is for those who have low esteem. They lack confidence and depend on others for decision making. They are emotionally weak and can’t control their emotions. Hence, get easily influenced by the people around them. They are easy prey for others.

MASKED PERSONALITY :

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These are the most difficult to understand. They know how to hide the emotions and feelings behind the face. They can also be called as FLAT FACED as they carry same expressions throught the day. NO SMILES NO WORRIES. They do not get easily attached with other and have few friends. They are always in their own world.

EMOTIONAL FOOLS :

Emotional fools personality

These are the ones who are always ready to help. They can’t see others in trouble. They are ready to extend their helping hands despite of knowing the fact that this can lead them to trouble. Such people , many a times, lose their money because the other person know that he/she will not say no to me when he/she see me in trouble. They easily fall in love and later cry.

These are few to mention. There may be many more waiting for you and me. Just now I am thinking in which category do I fall in.!!

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Have you ever encountered with any such kind of person in your life ? How did you deal with that situation ?

A reply to a runaway bride

This is a reply to a beautiful  poem written by Yoly describing the feelings of a runaway bride. 

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A runaway bride,decided to fight

Through the hardships of life

Though she had no one to care

She lived alone and did not share

Collected her broken pieces of heart

She made herself beautiful and

smart

She wrote a legend with her magical

words

She was back on Facebook as new

bird

She played snooker with her

seductive looks

And learnt how to handle all those

crooks

He who had lots of doubts about her

Now,feels proud and never want to

lose her

Via Daily prompt: legend

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Don’t be afraid to share your story

Motivational quote, write

Few days back I got this quote on whats app and I found it so appropriate to describe my new page

WRITE TO INSPIRE—-( See the menu)

So inspiring….!!!

Just give words to your thoughts

there are many who are waiting

to hear from you……

give them light

from the burning candle

of your heart…

bring them out

from the deep hole of sadness

and loneliness…

tell them they are not alone…

there are many like them

who are struggling….

some have found the way to come out..

So…HERE WE ARE !!!

Broken hearts💔💔

trying to mend your hearts…❤❤

So..Don’t be afraid

to share your story….

Remember……

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A big Thank You to the contributors…

 

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Special thanks to Jirah and Kida for their awesome contribution to my page and being a part of Write to inspire.

Do not forget to visit their post to read their opinions towards the issues they have written about.

Thank You to all my wonderful readers too for reading my blog and being a part of this journey  😍😍😍

And the journey continues……

P.S. – For more information about this small mission, Visit my page –WRITE TO INSPIRE in the menu.

Dignify your life

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Dignify your life

By doing some good deeds

Extend your hands for those

Who are marginalised

They are indispensable

Part of our society

Let’s make them feel

Sprinkle some sparkle

From the pocket of yours

Give them chances

Let their life shine….

Inspired by the talent of all those children who are belonging to that part of society where they have to struggle for their daily bread. They sleep under the open sky in every season, yet they can outshine anyone by their extraordinary talent.

Give a chance and see their wonders!!!

Feel free to share any instance from your life where you have felt the same.

Let’s Inspire ourselves and others...Let’s dignify our lives….!!!

Via Daily prompt: Dignify

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